i am a good lookin gal;though not d drop dead looks, i definetely make heads turn and am aware of this.. wenever som body whom i dnt knw, luks @ me (male / female), i look elsewer immedtly / look away. my frnds told me that this body lang makes me com across as havin a huge attitude.wen i saw myself in a video shot @ my frnds wedding,i kinda felt the same.m a very modest person n non egoistic but confident of wat i am.its only ppl who knw me who are aware that i i dnt hav an attitude/ego problem.. how do i rectify this body lang n present myself as a normal person who doesnt show off? how do i not keep my face set wch shows arrogance? this is especially a problem wen am alone.. i feel im a bit too rigid.
PS:am not comfrtble smilin @ strangers,so plz dnt advise that.
2007-12-01 23:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by jstcurious 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sweetie, don't worry, just relax and be yourself. You don't owe anyone eye contact if you are not comfortable... who cares what anyone else thinks?!?
2007-12-01 23:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by thedrisin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not comfortable smiley at strangers, to me that means buzz off and I don't care about you. Thats definitely a bad first impression, don't go to a job interview like that either, you need to just relax and remember not everybody is the same, for some you see smiling at you thats all they mean, just a warm friendly smile because they feel good inside about themselves and they smile at everybody, I know thats the way I am. I smile most of the time. I'm not checking you out I am just smiling because I am smiling inside. Think about it. Not everyone you meet is the same, don't group everyone together, and if you are not happy,. make some changes in your life. Personally I am a born again Christian, I have alot to be happy about. I am almost always smiling, it just comes natural to me. Good Luck and God Bless!!
2007-12-05 16:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋