Im 15 and still a virgin?
Ive never been kissed either.
Not to sound like an a ss but guys always stare at me at the mall and stuff, and i always get asked out by older guys (20 +) But lets just say i am physically fortunate... I have been told i look about 17-19, dont know if that is a bad thing.
( i dont want to sound vain)
Why dont guys my age ever ask me out? I am very shy and very quiet at first but if you get to know me, i flirt and i dont even notice.
I am not conceited. I do not brag about anything, and i am always the quiet one in th group.
Most people i know have actually stabbed me in the back. I only have 3 girlfriends, that i consider real friends.
I usually get along with guys and become really good friends with them.
Whats the deal?
2007-12-01 23:02:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just wait your b/f will come
2007-12-02 07:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by punk_is_funk! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you.
You are tween at the moment - a young lady on the verge of being a young woman and in a bit of a hurry to get there.
Older boys will look at you simply because of the promise you show and they will all try it on.
Boys your age are more shy and less mature than girls their own age.
Take it easy love - go slow and and enjoy the fun of growing up. Don't worry about so called friend who back-stab - it happens in all age groups, and is usually done by people who are either jealous of you or are too immature to bother about.
I'd stick to being friendly with guys my own age for a little while longer - you can be friends and let the rest of it happen in it's own time.
Don't stress about it, you'll notice a change in the boys when they turn 16 - 17 but until then be aware that the older boys can really get you into trouble, in more ways than one.
2007-12-02 07:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound great to me. You can't help looking older than you are. The ones who stab you in the back are probably raving jealous that they can't get on with the boys as you can. DON'T rush into anything just to prove something to them. It is not a competition. Compare notes with your 3 real friends but make your own mind up and be yourself. Boys of 15 are usually very immature no matter how they brag to cover it up. Be friends with the quiet ones, some one will ask you out who you can really relate to. Good luck.
2007-12-02 07:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look that's normal, some people don't get kissed until they're over 20. There's NOTHING wrong about you because there's nothing wrong with me. I hope.
I'm 15, a virgin, never-been-kissed, am the quiet one of my group, have only a few really close friends, but heaps of others, and they guys all love me like a little sister. Yes, it is sometimes annoying, but it's normal.
Heaps of peopel around your age have hte smae problems as you do. You're normal, so quit being so "is there something wrong with me" because now I feel bad, as if there is actually something wrong with me.
Cheer up, you're not alone.
2007-12-02 07:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tallie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of the things you are saying are very normal. Most people are a virgin at 15, they just pretend like they're not.
Having 3 friends that you can call real friends is a really good thing! It's better than having 30 friends on whom you can't rely on.
Be yourself and good things will happen to you!
2007-12-02 07:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need to do is exactly what you are doing.
you sound like a nice girl, and if you have a few close friends, you are lucky. you are wise to stay away from guys who are too old for you. avoid the dating drama and intrigue.
if you give this just a little bit more time, you will find that everything works out as you hope. you will meet a nice guy, the right guy...and all will be well.
no need to rush things.
2007-12-02 07:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by waterlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY how you feel, I'm 14, I get looked at more by 20-40 year olds then guys my age, they flirt with me all the time.
I actually got told once I should be in Playboy!!
But I've never kissed either.....
2007-12-02 11:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so let's answer ur questions 1 by 1. first of all, there's nothing wrong with you lols. Im turning 18 and im still a virgin lols. Why don't guys your age ask you out? maybe they're not yet as matured as you are. And if what you're saying about yourself is true, hmm...guess they have eye problems lols. anyways, you're still young. enjoy your life and be happy.^^ don't think about it that much cause there's nothing wrong with you lols.
2007-12-02 07:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by icriedherariver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times guys are just scared, older guys might be more confident, and being a virgin, thats probally a good thing. If you havent been kissed yet your probally just waiting for the right guy to come along.
2007-12-02 07:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Creative Rainbow 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would there be anything wrong with that? It's not a big deal that you haven't been kissed, or haven't had sex, in fact more power to you for not falling to the whims of peer pressure and the rush to have sex so early. Enjoy your years while you can, all too soon they will become complicated.
2007-12-02 07:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it, I've never been kissed and I'm still a virgin and I'm 16, there's not a certain age at which you have to sleep with someone or kiss them. In some cases its better to just wait. You will get asked ou by someone your age you just have to be patient
2007-12-02 07:29:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋