has as much chance of lasting the distance as one which hasn't?
2007-12-01 22:26:04 · 17 answers · asked by Dylangirl 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
so you know, it isnt me having the affair.. someone i know is ...
2007-12-01 22:36:09 · update #1
considering that one half of all marriages end in divorce, I'd say yes it does have as much chance to last.
2007-12-01 22:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship that has begun as a result of an affair has next to no chance of lasting. It's built on a lie, nothing that starts as a lie is cool.
2007-12-02 06:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by grace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about choices and changes, right? It would depend on life's circumstances which no person has a crystal ball in foretelling the future. One would be judgmental in saying yes or no, does anyone really know? Can one person love another without outside influences? Take this same question to a remote island without ever any outside influences, if you did then the affair would not have occurred to begin with, right? So, your question is influenced by western culture and your surroundings.
2007-12-02 06:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have reliable stats, but 5 of 5 I have known like that have all crashed and burned, all by one of the parties having another affair later. All but 1 were philosophical about it when it happened though.
2007-12-02 06:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was already married to someone else and had 2 children. I have been married to "my affair" for 27years and we have another child. We are one very happy family. We have lasted the distance and will continue to do so.
2007-12-02 07:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't my friend went with a married man they moved in together after eight month together, the end of the marriage for him, and the end of a relationship for her (10 years ). Two months later they split up and their partners had found comfort in each other, they have been together for 6 years, have two lovely kids. My friend has turned into a person who really isn't nice and the the fella who's marriage she wrecked is in prison for trashing his former home, because his ex wife has moved on.
2007-12-02 06:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustme 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can live knowing that you might be in the "ex-wife" role the next time, then it'll work.
The day you stop "giving it to him", he'll find another "giver" to fulfill his "wants": so basically, when you're pregnant and/or after birth. If that's the way he rolls, that's what you got coming.
2007-12-02 06:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your real about it from the get go then yes..... I dont condone them but I do know that it has just as much of a chance as what you are willing to put into it (no pun intended)......
2007-12-02 06:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by ashar/97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they already cheated what makes you think that the next relationship won't go the same way?
2007-12-02 06:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tina S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if it involves a 'little bundle of joy'!
2007-12-02 06:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by remoserjr107 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋