I'll do the very short version of this as I know that people are getting fed up of reading my questions.
Right, I'm a 15year old M2F transgenderliving as a guy for now but I do want to go through transition as soon as possible as when I cme out to my family they didn't accept me and I'm fed up of hiding my true self. Now as a guy I fancy girls so as girl I'd be a lesbian which I'd rather be. I have strong need to feel protected and long story short I'm just basically a really girly girl on the inside and if you wish to know the long story here's a link that has the whole story in it:
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap8W6Phjz6yKPMfg_s0QesYgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20071201063602AAeQzdv
But seen as if I do go through transition I'd be a lesbian I want to know how hard it is to get a girlfriend as I also have a strong need for a special someone at the moment I have my exgirlfriend who's my bestfriend and she knows I want to go through transition but I know she'd never go out with me if I actually go through transition so I just want to know how hard it is to get a girlfriend as a lesbian?
2007-12-01 20:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by Lily R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well I have a friend from Sweden who's 22 she's a girl in a guys body if that's how you put it, She'll be going through transition next year....She already has a girlfriend who I guess accepts her and she's had a boyfriend....I think you'll be fine, obviously it depends where you live and if there are cultural barriers but I think transgenders and homosexuals are on their way to being accepted.
It'll be pretty hard but just believe in yourself, be confident and I'm sure you'll find a special someone who accepts you the way you are...
There are plenty of people out their who look at what the person is on the inside and not the human shell/body that's on the outside.
I hope things turn out well for you...
Ganbatte!!!! (good luck)
2007-12-01 21:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you just getting a transition just because you feel like you have a boyish body?
I wouldnt go through with that unless you were 100% sure. Thats a big step. And you are only 15, you have plenty of time to decide if thats what you really want
You can always try working on your body and your shape to get it the way you want. Excercise, and foods, etc.
I think at your age it is hard to get a girlfriend as a lesbian, but it gets easier as you get older. If you are not fully ''out" as a lesbian it may also be kind of hard to find a partner.
2007-12-01 21:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a small, rural community, yes! I Still havn't "come out" fully, because I'd get the shite beaten outa me if I did, lose my friends and family etc. I've had a girlfriend for over a year but we've hardly told anyone because we know what will happen. BUT if you live in a larger place where people are more open minded, no, you'll have no problems. Good luck x
2007-12-02 00:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Steffi P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
flow to a gay bar or something like that. Sorry i'm not a lot help, i'm sixteen and that i've got had one suited female chum who lives 4 hours away *sigh* i'm helpful you will locate somebody quickly ^_^
2016-11-13 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by piano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't have a problem finding a girlfriend. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-12-01 22:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by spielberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can't be too hard.
I'm straight and have had girls ask me out.
2007-12-02 13:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Reflected Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how many people you meet, where u go to find people, how many lesbian friends you have etc.
2007-12-02 04:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it.
2007-12-01 21:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋