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be doing better in your life? How do you cope with it? What do you do? Only serious responders please.

2007-12-01 16:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by christaglo 2 in Social Science Psychology

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If God is real then he has a lot of awful stuff to answer for. I mean seriously, God, why parasites that live in the eyes of children? That's pretty screwed up.

As an addendum, considering i'm not making any friends here anyway. It's amazing to see all these christians, whom, when they have anger at God, it is always for their own selfish reasons, nobody has mentioned the suffering of others, the fact that God makes some people blind, deformed or born dying, that he creates bacteria and diseases simply to attack us and turn us into painfilled cripples- it's all about your own petty tribulations. You expect the hand of God to favour you personally and yet continue to ignore the suffering of others. People with faith talk of their own personal experience with God, and don't look around and see how God has touched the lives of others, consistently, for the worse. Most of you will not have a crisis of faith until your brother, sister, or yourself has some horrible tragedy- and then you'll doubt, forgetting that the same tragedies have happened to those with whom you have never shown any love or affection for millenia.

Such a self-obsessed spirituality it is.

2007-12-01 16:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Way 5 · 1 3

Actually self control is one of the fruits of the spirit as far as Galatians 5 states nine in total worthy of personal holiness to target.

Why angry, it is simply your choice? Try limiting choices to yourself it might cheer you up a little?

Frustrated, compressed for time little results and little time to achive or under achieving from effort done, most say try praying, but, from all the choices you have, what, if you were listening to answers in prayer would you think God would tell you, ie What would Jesus do?

Finally, what we focus upon we tend to get? Try prioritising what you value, your values, making the most important first? then lead into the other less significant ones, for where we prioritize the values by how we analyse them our focus results in peace?

Imagine each day at a time, each hour, each minute, each second if you have to, what would jesus do, lmao, remember God has a sense of humour, and he married a prositiute?

Well, if mary magdeline was, why should we judge anyone, basically being caring means compassionate tollerance, more loving less agressive more timeful to what matters less to what matters not, to each an elephant take one bite at a time, but, lol who the heck wants to eat an elephant.

Financially stressed? Relax, practice relaxation techniques, basically target outgoings welcome incoming,

Choices we make in life whether angry or peaceful, are purely a decision to decide something, you can pay the price of discapline or regret.

Angry people have toxic relationships.

The journey with the optimist and the skeptic can both be sane, but you have a better journey with the optomist.

the idea we are imune to bankruptsy? Fear nothing but Gods wrath and know each bad thing is a blessing needing discernments.

2007-12-02 00:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Anyone who believes in God, probably has gotten angry at him at some point in their life. You have to realize though shaking your first up at the sky isn't going to make your life better or easier. God left us with free will which means we make our own decision's, some of these decision's lead us to happiness when others can lead us to disappointment/depression/and failure. God can't answer every prayer, sometimes you have to just do good for yourself and try to make life better on your own. It seems when we're happy and content with our lives we don't take time out of our day's to appreciate the gift of life and thank God, but as soon as the smallest thing goes wrong we're quick to get angry. It's not going to change anything, so why even bother? <3 Also, whatever is going wrong for you -- I hope it gets better. Just keep in mind you can't always be happy, and life will never be perfect, BUT -- he did give you this life so make the best of it.

2007-12-02 00:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by STARLACE. 3 · 1 0

Of course. It is natural to be frustrated at the things life/God throws at you. It is challenge after challenge. I like the little mantra

To lead an extraordinary life
one must first become bigger than the ordinary.

Try to see yourslef as a surviver who is full of strength and able to see the challenges from above the situation, see how far you have come and see the problems that appear as hurdles ahead not brick walls. This has kept me sane when my world has taken away everything i've loved and worked for and made me start again. I figure now the only way is up and that even if I fall I know how to get back up.

Good luck in your travels, may they be extraordinary x

2007-12-02 00:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by swayisonline 2 · 0 1

I've been in and out of hospitals since the day that I was born. My first surgery was at the age of 4 months, I've had 6 more since than. I've been in and out of hospitals all my life, I've been treated for depression for most of my life since age of 9. Heck yes I get mad at God, and I wonder what I did to get such a rotten hand in life. Than I remember that I also have three beautiful children and a great family. I know that I've had the opportunities that other's wouldn't . I remember that life is a balance of good and bad. I cope by realizing that it is a matter of balance and that God only gives us as much as we can deal with. I just wish that God had less faith in me.

2007-12-02 00:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0 1

i had countless miseries in life even if i was younger but i never got angry with God...i experience lots of trials like emotionally, morally and financial trials instead of getting angry with God i check myself and how i can seek ultimate real happiness. Only a believer can understand my statement. Being obedient to the word of God and make a personal relationship with Him can change me to a better person. and inspite of all tribulations that come my way, i never loose hope because i know that God is with me and He will surely guide me through all the days of my life and the right path of which i believe can give me the real happiness im searching for... i am a Christian so i read the bible and attend church. so whatever circumstances will come i shall never fear. so there is no reason to be angry with God anymore the God who created me and gave me life...to be happy just think positively that all things are possible with God. if you want to know a better understanding about what i am sharing now, i suggest u talk to a religious leader. maybe a pastor in church.
i hope this can help but not necessarily agree. its your choice.
and I chose to be happy... God bless you...

2007-12-02 01:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0 1

Many peop-le get angry with God. he is big, He can handle it. Job was frustrated with God. I cope with knowing that God will not let me have more than I can handle. Sometimes I have to look and see if it is God or is my own behavior causing the bad things to happen. We also have to remember that people have free will to screw up not only their lives but the lives of others.

2007-12-02 00:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by TAT 7 · 0 1

It's OK to get angry with God, it means that you are at least attempting to communicate with him. But much of the world's ills are the fault of the humans who have stuffed it up. why blame God if we have made mistakes? I believe God is there to help. He can help us make the world a better place.

2007-12-02 03:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I never blamed him for anything....up until my sis accident..then I got mad at him. I realized that stuff happens that are meant to happen. We just have to accept that things wont all ways be rainbows and butterflies. Once I learned to go to God as a comfort source rather than the target of my blame. I felt a lot better.

2007-12-02 00:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by saconners1 6 · 0 1

I have blamed god in the past, but then i learned that we all make decisions in life and that's one of the gifts that god has given us, every decision has consequences behind it, especially the bad ones, i came to the conclusion that's its better to pray than blame, and eventually things will get better.

2007-12-02 00:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by ARTY 6 · 0 1

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