2007-12-01 16:37:59 · 42 answers · asked by Bunny Boiler 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
One cannot "get" somebody to love them. Love isn't something that you can get someone to feel. It is something that is nearly uttery uncontrolable, which can be disheartening if the love is not mutual.
You can try and "win someone over" but most of the time that includes "putting on an act" and not being yourself. That could create a false hope for true, honest love. One of the definitions from Merriam-Webster's online dictionary of love is, "affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests". It's one of those things that really just happens because of who you are and who the other person is. They just "click"; they're the missing piece to the other's puzzle. All of that jazz. It's just something that happens, good or bad, long or short, it happens and sometimes there's nothing we can do about it.
It isn't something that can be manufactured if you want it to be honest, true, real love. Therefore, you can't "get" or make someone love you. The best thing about love is that it comes naturally. The ways it can take you by surprise and sweep you off your feet make up for the times that it slaps you in the face. It's a give and take, an uncontrolable give and take that you can't get someone to feel.
2007-12-01 16:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Snuggles! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make somebody love you. But you sure can make it hard for someone to not help but to love love you. By that, I mean just be yourself. Treat somebody the way you would like to be treated. Sooner or later the right one will come along and appreciate you just for being you.
2007-12-01 20:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. They either will or they won't, there is no way to make someone fall for you -- if love was that easy everybody would be happy and in love. Unfortunately, it's not. You just have to be yourself, some may fall -- others may not. It just depends on if you're the type of person they can love. <3 Falling in love isn't a choice, it just happens.
2007-12-01 16:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by STARLACE. 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think that somewhere far, far away...
all the way across the oceans & all the way through the other side of the world...there is some kind of secret potion that can help me with that...
other than that....i am not the person to ask..
i can never get the ones i want to love me *sigh*
2007-12-03 11:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by ×Charmz× 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U cant get some one to love you... But you can prove to them that you love them and you want to be with them and will treat them with the outmost respect and love.... And just be yoursealf so they can love you for who you are... But don't force them or scare them into loving you.. Just show them your feelings and if they don't wanna love you then try one more time to convince them and if they don't love tou after that then move on.... Good Luck :-)
2007-12-01 16:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Triple H. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It must be a random path of life, you can't really make or force someone to love you... but somehow, if you take the right path in life and time, you'll end up with your one worthy love...?
2007-12-02 16:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love potion Number 9...if only that was really, you have to let them know that you love them, but without saying it, if they love you to, they'll return the affection
2007-12-01 16:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by ricjames07 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start dating them, show them you are not a psycho but actually funny smart and loving and then MAYBE they might love you back.
You have to keep loving until someone loves you back.
2007-12-01 16:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't really make someone love you. There are things you can do to prompt them to THINK they love, but really it's something you can't control.
Be yourself and do your best to be observant of their likes and dislikes.
2007-12-01 16:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by Gryph 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. They either do or they don't. If you try to be someone other than yourself to get their love, then they'll be loving that person and not the real you, so trying to get them to love you doesn't work.
2007-12-01 16:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋