i'm pregant and i'm scared my bf is going to leave me i'm due next month he has already cheated on me 4 times while i'm pregant, because i'm never in the mood anymore because you know when you're pregant its hard
and i'm only 15
what should i do?
2007-12-01 16:21:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am sad. It just breaks my heart hearing about babies having babies. Your story is good proof on why people should be married before having babies. Good luck to you and God Bless!
2007-12-01 16:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give the baby up for adoption.
Drop the loser. (Really, he's a loser. Anyone. Who. Cheats. On. You. Is. A. Loser. There is never an excuse for cheating. Ever.) You should not be scared of this guy leaving you. You should leave him. He is doing nothing but holding you back.
Go back to school (congratulations if you haven't left!) and get on with your life.
2007-12-01 17:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun, its ok im 17 and 34 weeks pregnant. yea im sorta going through the same thing bc my bf keeps on saying that hes not ready and stuff and hes cant handle it. just let him be. once u have the baby he is going to want to be with u and the baby. well if u need to talk a pretty much on alll the time email me at vandusenlindsey@yahoo.com
2007-12-01 16:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him! He is showing you that he just doesnt care about nothing but himself. Im really sorry you are going through this. I know it must be hard, but its easier to get through the pain all at once then to keep hurting everyday.
Be Strong and Good Luck
2007-12-02 13:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him to **** himself and tell him where he can go for startes. you need to take care of yourself and your baby and well once a cheater always a cheater aswell. so thats not an excuse to cheat on you because your pregnant and you dont want sex right now. thats wrong and heartless. hunie leave him, you can do this on your own and you dont need a dirtbag like that around you and your baby. good luck sweetie and if you need someone to talk to , well email me ok aussiechick19au@yahoo.com
2007-12-01 16:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by mummy of 4 babies :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him leave. You don't need that....please let him leave. Regardless if he is not in the mood he doesn't have a right to cheat on you...it is called lotion and his own hand.
Raise your child on your own and try and get some money from his parents to help you support your child.
2007-12-01 16:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mommafig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***!!
i know you probably love him and everything.
but he obviously doesn't love or respect you enough
not to cheat on you...
im 16 and pregnant and when im not in the mood
my b/f just waits or sticks to his hand...
it still bums him out- of course,
but he knows if he ever cheated on me,
me and his daughter would be gone.....
let him now that,
you deserve much better!!!
and there are plenty of guys out there who
would love to be with you.. baby or not....
and who will respect you much more than that
jackazz!!
good luck to you and your baby!!
and if you ever need to talk about anything...
my email is kaye_6669@yahoo.com...
or email me and ill give you my myspace name if that
is better for you!!
im a very open person.. so dont be shy!!
peace -n- preggo love!!
2007-12-01 16:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kaidence's Mommy!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o sweety, its not worth it if hes gonna be like that! i cant believe you have put uo with him this long! if you want to talk you can im or e-mail me there is links on my account! congrads and good luck!
2007-12-01 16:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cass erole♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go because u dont need that drama in u or u child life
2007-12-01 16:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by tic22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have EVER been "in the mood"!!! you are freakin 15!!! and now you are a single mother. congrats on everything.
2007-12-01 16:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋