what shod i tell my parents,im onley 13 hes onley 16
2007-12-01 16:03:49 · 69 answers · asked by shyron c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i tock a pregnancy test and i am
2007-12-01 16:10:46 · update #1
its ben 3mounts
2007-12-02 01:44:25 · update #2
my perents whaar both 16 win thay had me
2007-12-02 01:57:12 · update #3
i rearly hope you are not serious here,if you are i rearly feel for you,you will be scared i cant understand your parents letting you move in with your boyfriend at only 13 years old and your boyfriend is to old for you your to young to having a baby you havnt had a life yet,you are 1 year younger than one of my grandchildren,and she has to be in before 9pm and picked up from her friends,you are going to have to tell your parents,i cant blame you even though your 13 and should know about these things,i blame your parents for letting you move in,are they your real parents?what on earth are they thinking of,take another test just to make sure then tell them if it is positive again and they are going to have to help sort out what to do,you poor luv
hope everything is ok all the best
2007-12-01 22:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents shouldn't have let you move in with your boyfriend, I know that sounds bad but you are not at an age to be on your own without supervision. You need to take a pregnancy test and tell your parents if it's positive. You need support through this. You are not old enough to be a mother or a wife. You will need to get an education and a job and a clue before you even think to raise a baby. Just ask for as much help as you can get.
2007-12-01 16:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lola B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you are only 13, and now pregnant?? That is SICK of your parents, they obviously dont care that you are 13 and acting like an adult. How can they be mad, they let you move in with him at 13.
GIVE YOUR BABY UP FOR AN ADOPTION!
at 13 you cant work anyplace, you have to finish school and have alot of growing up to do. Tell your parents that they need to get a clue, and that they are to blame! That child will have a horrible and hard life ahead of it.... think of your child, and what would be best for him/ her. You are so young, and have your whole life ahead of you. YOU have NO buisness playing housewife and your parents should have any and all children taken away from them asap!
In a situation like this, you have a life now to think about, and being selfish is not good. There are THOUSANDS of Parents that would love to have a baby, and are mature enough to take care of it! Think about your options, this does not only effect you, but a precious life. You need to go to a church, read the Bible and get a relationship with God. STOP sinning you are only a child! I would also love to know what counrty are you in? That may have alot to do with thier choice to allow you to live with a 16 year old ( KNOWING you would have sex) stay in school, get a relationship with God, stop sinning and take responsibility NOW before its too late. Go online or talk to someone and get help for your child! You will be in my prayers, I wish you only the best. God Bless you
2007-12-01 16:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by dolby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems as though
a) your parents trust you and have enough faith that you will make good decisions if they allowed you to move in with your boyfriend at 13
b) you and your parents have a strong enough relationship if you were able to ask them to move out and they permitted it
Based on this I would recommend complete honesty- hiding it without seeking their advice will deplete the level of trust they have in your as their mature daughter.
At 13, it's easy to get carried away with you physical maturity, but it doesn't automatically transpose into emotional and psychological maturity (if only haha), so you need to seek the advice and support of adults who have experienced more of life. Despite your parents initial reaction (not as though I can predict what it will be), they are your parents and they love you dearly.
So mull over the exact words you will use, but don't fear honesty, it's always the most successful approach to any issue no matter how great or small.
Rock on and best of luck!
2007-12-01 16:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hello There 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all why in the worl would your parents let you move in with your boyfriend your 13 not 18.... i mena he 16 your 13 its not right second of all you should be using protection with the the stds and the chances of getting aids now and days isnt looking good. but sit down with you r parents and talk to them explain to them dont yell dont scream . act like an adult apparently you can have sex and and act like an adult that way then you shouldnt have a problem sitting down and telling them that your ahving a baby. 3rd of all you have to decide what you want to do i would never suggest soem one to have an abortion cause well i belive that is is wrong to end an innocent life that never asked to be born but theres always adoption. is he going to be able to support you and the baby? is he going to do whats right and marry you? i know when your 13 yrs old you think your so inlove and that it will last forever but thats what puppy
love is called...... not tryin to be mean or any thing its just my out look on it!!
2007-12-01 16:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your bf parents, your parents, your and your bf talk it out. I mean it's not your fault it must have happened on accident. This happens to many girls believe me i know. If they love you dearly then they will understand and support you and your bf with raising the baby. But if they don't think he's responsible enough to help you take care of the baby. Then move on in your life love your bf and your baby. It may be rough roads ahead but you have to stay strong and keep going. Or you can just get an abortion if you and your bf is not ready for a baby. Take care and i hope i helped you.
2007-12-01 16:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by MzFoxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL kind of parents let you move in with your 16 year old boyfriend?????
Before you do anything take a pregnancy test, and be sure that you are or are not pregnant.
If your pregnant then you defiently need to go to your parents. It might be hard but it's best for the baby.
If your not. USE PROTECTION ALWAYS!!! Don't even have sex dam it!!!
2007-12-01 16:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same exact thing happened to me. Its not the end of the world. It could truly be a blessing in disguise. I had my 1st son at 14. Tell your parents. Ask them for there help and support. Pour your heart out to them. Then make a serious change for your baby. Learn from it and move on. 10 years from now you'll look back and realize all the blessings that come from 1 mistake. We all make them. Be smart enough to know how to handle them, how to overcome them, and how to let them be advances in life instead of setbacks. Remeber, Remeber , Remeber, Pressure makes Diamonds!!
2007-12-01 16:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by nodrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck was your parents thinking and you think u r pregnant u should still be in school i am shocked this si a first for me i will never allow that with any of my kids your parent need 1st class parenting class or better yet councelling but then again u really need to talk to someone else but your parents maybe someone a little more experienced in parenting who will advise u better 13 years wow good luck hon
2007-12-01 16:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your parents were not being good parents by letting you stay with him (inless you asked them 2 which wud make u dumb)and you have to tell your parents, because how are u and ya baby gonna survive?Theres other ways out like Obortion or adoption but if u rly dont want it put it up for adoption visit it all the time(he/she)
and plse dont put it up for obortion(u pretty much kill your child)
I wish you the best of luck,and make sure ur pregnant first...
(take tests)
2007-12-01 16:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋