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My mom thinks that I'm qualified to learn, but I can't convince my dad.

You see, he was taught probably in the late 70's/early 80's, so they didn't have nearly the fancy equipment they have now. He had to do all of the math in his head. I think he's worried I won't keep an eye on how deep I am, how quick I'm ascending, and other essentials of diving safety.

Thing is, I will, especially if the only thing keeping me alive is strapped to my back!

I'm a strong swimmer (he taught me how when I was about 2), I'm getting A's in an honors math class, (useful if something did blink out) and I know how to use fins from going snorkeling.

I want more freedom than about 10 feet down!

Oh, and I'm 15 years old, pretty much fully developed physically. (I know that's a big part of not letting kids dive!) Minimum age in Mississippi is 12, I believe.

2007-12-01 15:07:48 · 5 answers · asked by Leafy 6 in Sports Swimming & Diving

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You don't need to be a math genius to be a certified diver. Talk to your dad about it and ask him if you guys can just go check out a dive shop, see what gear and classes they have to offer. This way, your dad will be updated on all the latest things. Also, find out if he'd let you learn if he can sit in on your class; you can also suggest that he quiz you at home and that once you're done, you two can dive together.

If this has to do with your body changing size/shape and equipment, you can agree not buy anything till you're over 18. That way you'll spend less money purchasing different size wet suits.

It would also help if you ask your dad to be specific as to why he doesn't want you diving yet. Is it the math, your age, the price, the workload, etc?

P.S. using fins while snorkeling is not the same as using fins while diving. when diving, you want to make sure you're extra careful that you don't damage reefs or other fragile substrate.

2007-12-03 13:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by June C 3 · 1 0

Why not go to your local dive shop and buy the books (or if you prefer, learn online with PADI e-learning). Show your dad the new materials, study hard and show him that you understand. Maybe wait until you have some study done before you show him.
If he understands that you are serious and can absorb this information, maybe he will be more receptive.
If not then at least you will have gained the knowledge in preparation for the day you are allowed.

Just on the off chance that his seeing that you can understand may sway his decision!

2007-12-01 22:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Robert M 3 · 1 0

why not ask your dad to teach you. Maybe it is not you that he doesn't trust....maybe he is afraid you won't learn the proper way to do it. Get him to teach you the basics and go with you. Have him teach you the way he learned, that way you will have that knowledge, then when he is satisfied with that maybe you can take courses at your local community college or somewhere that offers certification in diving. Sit him down and talk to him about all of this. See if this would appease him.
Good Luck and explore the depths for me too!!!!

2007-12-01 15:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1 0

Babe, dont take that risk if u insist to just dive and let ur dad or ur trainer be with u in case just dont be alone this is my advice the water is not safe i wish u all the luck and take care.

cya

2007-12-01 21:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

tell him that u r lesbian. it will eclipse all other problems

2007-12-04 07:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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