my bf is 19 im 16 and we been 2getha 2months and i fallin pregnant.. i love him n he loves me.
2007-12-01 13:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by babi3phatt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he knows and hes really happy about it but my parents dont know yet i thought id wait a lil bit b4 i tell them
2007-12-01 13:37:33 · update #1
Yeah it's wrong. Who sleeps with someone they've known for 2 months- when you're 16?? Bad choice and even worse outcome.
2007-12-01 13:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dig It 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is bad news. You should have taken measures to not get pregnant and your bf is a fool if he did not insist on it. So you are young and your bf is not smart enough to take care of you and now you have his child who has a father who is a fool too. Your parents will need to raise your child when they have worked hard and made sacrifices to raise you already. It is not fair to them or the child that you and your boyfriend have made this decision to live in poverty. The health and social problems for children born to teens are serious and your child will bear the burden of this decision their entire life.
But done is done and now you need to start acting like the adult you felt like the night you made this child. Adults control their passion because they know they need to face the music the tomorrow. You need to talk to your parents tonight. This is not some fun Christmas present you are going to surprise them with. They will be devastated. Their life and yours will be damaged by this act and your boyfriend is free to walk any day on this - and the odds say he will.
So - Mommy - you are not the child anymore, those days are over now. You wanted to be an adult? OK, you got it. Shut down the computer or phone, go to your parents and tell them what you have done to them, yourself, and this child. Face the music you wrote with your desire - that's what being a woman, a mother, and an adult is about.
2007-12-01 22:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your life is going to change drastically! If you keep the baby...you will be a mom forever and that means a lot of growing up. Teenagers are selfish but to be a mom you will have to let that go. Tell the father and tell him you want and need his support. Don't expect it though! Tell your parents what your have decided to do and that you need them. I wish you and your baby the very best!
2007-12-01 21:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Shonda G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age difference is wrong, it is just something you should think about, you shouldn't of had sex with him in less than 2 months of being with him at any age, specially unprotected, you need to talk to someone, and soon, don't leave it a while, talk to parents or a counsellor like the school counsellor or talk to a doctor, they can help you in private, even from your parents
2007-12-01 21:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think two months is a little soon to be that deep into a relationship, especially at such a young age.
The fact that he is over 18 is a bit bothersome, but if you look at it from a real world sense, tons of people date folks who at five to ten years older than they are.
But hey.
If you're in love, then you're in love.
Just make good decisions.
2007-12-01 21:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know what you are getting yourself into. I was in a similar situation and I later found out that even though I loved the girl she was not ready. Now I am a single dad.
2007-12-01 21:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by ravin_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM tough sitiation just tell your parents (make sure they are sitting down)Be straight forward and honest wit them let them no that U think he is going to help and decide whether or not u are ready fofr this child(abortion is a sin)
2007-12-01 21:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them since hes gonna step up to the plate and take care of your baby. Trust me they will acept him because they acept my babys daddy since he said I am going to take care of our child we've made. So go head and take the next step of this problem oh yeah make sure your bf is with you when you guy will tell them!!
2007-12-04 19:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Eva Jimenez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to know, so please tell them now. They are responsible for you and need to address the issue as best they can.
Your parents could really get radical about this one... for one thing, it is statutory rape on his part.
Getting pregnant at your very young age after only dating for 2 months is downright irresponsible on your part. Really bad decisions.
2007-12-02 00:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. A baby is never wrong. Yes you made a wrong choice but you need help and support to get through this. Do your parents know? does he know?
2007-12-01 21:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by cha92107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋