All I want for christmas is a dog?

Question

But parents say no, I really want one I have a plan on getting money and a friend of the family's puppy just had puppies and I really want one mom says that I can not volenteer at the animal shelter and it just stinks. I have a cat that I begged for and I now have it but it hates me and loves my dad My family had a dog at one point but he died cause no one would take care of it you know play with and all that but I was scared of him and my big brother was too buisy for it I am deathly afraid of big dogs I want a chihauhau or teacup anything or really anything small how do I convence them I should get one

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apparently it was no ones fault he was just old

Answer 1

Responsibility is key. You really need to show them that you can properly care for a pet. Why not clean out your cat's litterbox once in awhile, or take the time to feed your cat? While these tasks may seem too "time consuming", I can assure you that having a dog will be just as much work - and more. You could also start a dog walking business, and put up flyers at your library, school or just around your neighbourhood. Research dog care, puppy training and the breed of dog that you want by using the Internet and books (try your local library). Total up the cost of keeping a dog every year, and see how much of it you can cover yourself.
Your parents will need to see how willing you are to get a dog and most importantly, care for it. If you're not willing to spend the time proving this to them, then you are clearly not willing to care for a dog.

I hope you are successful! :o)
XOXO,
Laurie

Answer 2

I'm sorry but from what you've said above I kind of have to say that you're not ready for a dog. They are a HUGE responsibility.

I got one for my birthday last year (when I turned 17) and trust me it was a lot harder than I thought. She had so much energy and she ended up chewing through tv and internet cables, chewed through 2 cellphone chargers, clothes, shoes, furniture etc etc. She always has dug holes and ripped up the garden many many times. Toilet training isn't easy. My puppy was very good about it, but her sister was very difficult. You'll have stained carpet and it'll smell pretty bad. Oh and you'll have sleepless nights for the first few weeks.

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my puppy. She's the best ever and I wouldn't trade her in for anything or anyone, but she was and still is a lot of work! She has calmed down a lot since then though.

There are also so many bills and costs in owning a dog. It's not just the initial cost of owning a dog but then there is the food, registration, vet bills, vaccinations, spaying etc etc. My puppy just broke her foot and the vet bill came to over $200.

It's a shame that your mum wont let you volunteer because that'd be a good eye opener. See if you can talk to her again.

If you've had a dog in the past and it died of the reasons you said then honestly you're not ready, your family are not ready. That's just completely irresponsible.

Before owning a dog there is so much that you need to realize. Where will it live? Can you afford it? Who will take it for walks? Will you want to walk it in the rain and snow? Do you have a big enough backyard? What will happen when you leave and go to college?

I'm 18 and going off to University next year and I'm lucky I have my Mum and brother to look after Tilly. Your family don't sound keen at all though.

I also beg you not to buy puppies from that lady, you SHOULD NOT support backyard breeders. There are far too many unadopted, homeless puppies out there already.


I'm sorry this isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth. You ask this question in the Pets>Dogs category and you'll get a similar answer.

EDIT- http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoLmHgb6kVIkEmI7bP5e4Afsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071201175727AAKGlB9

My point exactly!

No, apparently it's called irresponsible and neglect. Our family dog lived till she was 15 and she was a large dog. Maybe if you cared for it then it would have been a different story. It's so selfish of your family, you dog didn't ask to have you as a family and your dog can't speak or go and get help for himself, that's your job and you failed to do that.
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Answer 3

Since you are a child, unfortunately you need to respect your parents and not get a dog. They are going to be the ones responsible for it. Dogs cost more then the initial cost of buying a puppy, I personally probably spend over 600 dollars a year per dog, just on vet bills, premium food, treats and toys.

My mom used to tell me, once I was an adult I could have as many dogs as I wanted...and now I have two. I also work with dogs, so I am surrounded by dogs all the time, and I have never been happier. As an adult, I realize why my mom said no to another dog after my childhood dog died, and I respect the reasons she had. I did, however, wish she would change her mind, but she never did, and I think she did that to teach me patience. And it also made getting my first dog as an adult that much more pleasant.

Answer 4

The trouble is that what you are talking about is potentially a fifteen to twenty year commitment. When I was twelve, I begged my father for a dog without success, but now I understand why. That dog could still be alive, and my responsibility now, at 30! And then we arrive at the massive expenses of vet bills and day to day care. Sit down and think about it, and try and follow your head, not your heart. It's really probably not a good idea.

Answer 5

It took me 7 years to finally get my puppy, but one day, even though I hadn't asked a cute little butter ball sat in my lap on the way home from the breeder. Good luck and be patient.
Also it is not a good idea to get a dog during the holidays because that is the time where the most get bought and people are constantly picking them up. This makes them sick and they end up dying after a month. (sorry to let you down!)

Answer 6

you dont basically detect a dogs and take it domicile as a christmas dogs! someone ought to personal it. did you're taking it to the vet and get it scanned to work out if it has a microchip??/ did you ring each and each of the vets and local pounds contained in the area to enable them comprehend you've got here across a stray??? someone owns this dogs and has lost there "christmas dogs" and is probable walking the streets searching for it!!!

Answer 7

'My family had a dog at one point but he died cause no one would take care of it'

There's your answer right there. You neglected one dog, another one won't make a difference. I hope you don't manage to 'convence' them of anything, as you clearly don't realise that a dog is a living, breathing creature and needs love and attention.

Edit: No, it was your neglect. It was not just old age. You said yourself it died because no one would take care of it. People like you make me sick. That poor dog.

Answer 8

I'm sorry sweetie, I'd love to help you, but I can't read run on sentences. It's hard to comprehend. So far, I know you want a dog. Sorry, I tried.

Answer 9

just tell them you'll do chores around the house and raise money for the dog... they don't have to pay for the dog...don't u have an allowance?

Answer 10

Oh My God you you are a joke! I hope your parents are sane enough not get you a dog!