I'm a fulltime mom. take a good care of kid, house, education,...
but i don't have my social life. I don't want to leave my kids alone...
how can i handle it?
2007-12-01 11:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by rini a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What the hell does this mean? "frustrated to set 'huh' budget can't support me"
Could you please try it again, using a little English grammar this time? I can't even tell what you're trying to say.
2007-12-01 11:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the kids. Give your time without resentment to them. Teach them, learn from them, and forget a social life.
If you are a single mom or married mom is not part of the question...
you have kids, that is your first priority regardless of your own needs. It is hard, but it is worth it when they grow up good kids. They will love you like no one in your social life - cause they aren't lacking in closeness, and they will realize the sacrifices when they are older - be patient.
While your waiting for your social life - work on yourself - exercise, get fit, get a degree online at home, read, learn, teach your kids, join parenting groups and church Mom's day out program - so you can at least have Mom's time out :)
Take care and I hope the best for you and the children
2007-12-01 19:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe put the children to bed, and invite a coupla girlfriends over... to your place in the evenings. You sound like a good mom.. only super moms are wrapped up completely in their children, but it's not healthy for you not to have a social life. Can your parents or husband watch them for a night? A lot of towns/churches have stay at home mom clubs, and then they take turns babysitting while the rest go on errands or catch dessert, and also it's a great support system. If you can't find one, start one.
2007-12-01 20:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone from time to time to give you some you time. Make it cheap as possible if you are on a budget. Even if it is the ids at grandma's for you a night in.
2007-12-01 19:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church. There is a social life there; fellowship with ladies your age, and lots of friendships to make. The kids can go too,,,,,and they'll meet other children their age.
Take your time and get to know the ladies, and let them get to know you too.
2007-12-01 19:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Susan M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have friends? well get sum, and go hang out once in a while tell the ol man he's on baby duty
2007-12-01 19:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by iluvmeeee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your husband baby sit while you get some alone time
2007-12-01 19:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋