Use crack and messing up money used to pay bills.
2007-12-01 11:39:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i would end the marriage, because u can't compete with crack or make him stop. its going to be something he would have to want to do. i would not want my life messed up because of crack, or my credit ruined. u didn't make him like this and its doubtful that u can fix him, run as fast as u can away from him.
2007-12-01 12:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LISTEN TO THE CRACKPOTS WHO SAY NO.
They've never been with a drug addict they have NO idea what your going through for cryen out loud , or they use it and that's why they spend so much time on here because their lives are so screwed up they cant see what they are doing is wrong.They'll find out to late.
My brother's a dealer , the other sells for him , both their marriage's crashed and they physically abuse their partners because of the drug abuse , seriously get rid of him if you have kids is this how you want them to view life? like it's "OK" come off it , how many young people die every year from this crap.
Get rid of him.
2007-12-01 12:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, divorce him because he is having gay sex to pay for this crack habit. Seriously, you are playing with a ticking bomb. Dump him before worse things happen.
2007-12-01 12:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Crack is highly addictive and dangerous. Tell him if he cleans himself up and goes through rehab, you would consider taking him back after six months or so being clean. Druggies are losers. Why throw your life away.
2007-12-01 11:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a child of a parent who was addicted to crack for 20 years. my whole life we always had something one day and that night it was gone... i remember finding our christmas presents hidden in the closet only to not be able to open them on christmas morning....i remember sleeping with my purse under my pillow and still had money missing from it as a teenager......i remember being in the car trying to chase him because he stole my mom's rent money......my mom was a tough women but it took strong guts....she kicked him out plenty of times and sent him to over 25 rehabs......that cost money too......all it took was for her to leave.....she picked up everything and moved out of the town..used p.o box....and put private on phone....she stopped all contact with him...if you enable the addict.......you are putting yourself at a long term struggle with life...you will never have anything...and the worst part is the manipulation......Help yourself and leave....they truely dont get better....truely!!!
2007-12-01 11:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by mrslewis1123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As fast as I could get to a lawyers office.He has no interest in making a relationship work and you are enabling him.You aren't doing either of you any favors.
2007-12-01 12:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by do not need a babysitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. I'd see about getting this person help, if possible. If that's not possible, then I might choose to live apart unless and and until things change. But no divorce.
2007-12-01 11:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Billy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah! Once you go crack, there's no coming back. His soul is gone.
2007-12-01 12:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh...yeah. Unless he went to rehab and made a plan to clean up the financial mess he made.
2007-12-01 11:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to protect your self. Get him out now!!!! Set major boundaries with him. Let him come back after he is sober.
2007-12-01 13:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋