Absolutely not.
:o)
2007-12-01 09:55:41
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answered by Linz VT•AM 4
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I met someone here who I fell in love with. Then, after some time of a relationship and having this forum as one of our conversation topics, we started feeling that it was not really that great to be together. It was the same thing that put us together what is separating us as we inevitably follow each other's answers. At some point I felt bullied when without mentioning my nick I was the topic of one of his questions in such a way that it was so leading that everyone answering threw lots of garbish at that person who in actual fact was me. When confronted he just laughed saying that no-one would know that it was me no matter what it was said.
I think that Y/A is great when used properly and in small doses. If getting into it too much, spending time needed for other things, or evading real people for cybernetic, there is certainly a problem.
If someone asked me to leave it all depends whether it was a whimsical imposition or a rational request because something else was not working properly. If it was only irrational jealousy, I would leave, sort that out and then come back.
Good luck!
2007-12-01 11:45:49
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answered by Díscolo 6
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Well, my husband is no longer with me so I live alone. But yes, I would leave yahoo! Answers! I can't go into certain sites here because of the hatefulness of people who are hiding behind the computer. I need to stay with the calmer sites like this one and the senior sites. The others have become so rude that I want to say "Goodbye and Goodriddens!." (I dated myself there)
2007-12-02 00:43:59
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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If it really bothered him, I would. However, he is at work several days a week because he is a firefighter and this is my outlet. :) If he asked I would, I would miss answering the silly questions and sharing the Gospel with people. I mean I share the Gospel other ways, but here you can reach more.
I've met some great and wonderful people on Y/A and they have all been an amazing blessing to me. Not to mention, they all make me laugh until it hurts.
Love ya'll.
2007-12-01 10:50:34
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answered by beanhead1972((14HIM)) 6
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I'd want to talk about it, weird as that may be. Having a serous discussion about participation in an online question/answer site as though it's on the same level as discussing finances or children.
Anyhow, I'd want to know why they'd ask me to quit something I enjoy so much. If they felt it took up too much of my time, I'd ask for a compromise, to spend much less time here but to not give it up entirely. If they think it's "just silly", I'd ask them to understand that silly as it may seem to them, it's a pleasurable pass time despite how "dorky" or "pointless" it may be.
If they insisted and insisted and didn't give a good reason why, I wouldn't think so much that it was Y!A itself but perhaps a deeper problem.
2007-12-01 10:15:27
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answered by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7
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U know what - I don't think I'd be marrying such a guy who is that possessive and insecure.
It's not like I am meeting people here. I keep to my questions, and answer people who need help. I wonder why he'd mind? I don't treat this as a social club. If I feel his reason is not valid, I will not quit. But if it's truly, truly, disturbing him, then I'd have no choice but to quit, and then I'd be one unhappy soul for no fault of mine. I am already grumpy thinking bout it :).
2007-12-01 10:19:11
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answered by ? 6
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If it bothered her for valid reasons or was hurting our relationship irrevocably, yes. I would try to talk out the reasons why first and perhaps assure her that being here was in no way a ploy to make her jealous or ignore her. A few friends of mine convinced their wives/husbands to get accounts and showed them around the place. Now they're regulars here and enjoy the heck out of it. :-)
If my being on here upset the person I love most in the world it would no longer be important or enjoyable for me to be here. I know she would never deny me something I enjoyed for little to no reason. I would respect her wishes. This place is addicting, for sure.
If it's YOUR wife you're speaking of, however, NO! Never! We need you! That's different! This is a double standard here! Homey don't play that game!
2007-12-01 10:09:16
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know what the question was called but it went something like this "I was walking and saw a guy, and I accidentally dropped my baby, it started crying so I came here, the thing is, the baby is still outside, should I have picked it up? Help!" I have no clue what it was called, or who wrote it, but it was very funny.
2016-05-27 03:48:06
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answered by ? 3
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I'll need an explanation
As of now I always share with her what I'm doing and to whom I'm talking to. And I usually ask her for an opinion, how would you answer this or that. I keep my wife involved.
2007-12-01 11:28:40
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answered by jj 4
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Yes
2007-12-01 09:57:56
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answered by genaddt 7
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Yes, but she wouldn't.You see I used to not be a very good Husband to Her.I had addictions and pride that brought out the worst in me.But God has changed that.Instead of out drinking and drugging, my spare time is spent helping with the dishes, sometimes I run the washer and dryer, why I even know how to vacuum now.When I am done with that I take some time to spend with family or read the Bible.And then you guessed it, I am yahoo-ing! And don't you know that my little wife smiles at me while I am sitting here.Praise God!
2007-12-01 10:07:18
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answered by don_steele54 6
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