Where have you been Maureen? Every other fellow out of the closet enjoys the melodramatic lisp. Surely you can understand the generalizing/stereotyping. It's just the way we're programmed to think. I just can't quite understand the whole "taking on the characteristics of the opposite sex thing." A man being attracted to another man who acts/talks/whatever like a woman. It's like doing a 180 and getting lost. The same with the girls. There are so many, it seems, that go for manly women. Maybe I just don't understand since I'm straight.
2007-12-01 10:06:47
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answered by playdeaux 3
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I didn't change my voice, persay, when I came out. I did realize, about a year after coming out though, that I did speak and act differently, and I realized that that was because I was finally comfortable with who I am. I didn't have to "hide" the fact that I was gay, I could just be myself. I did the same thing when I started a new job; after being there x amount of time, I had gauged the people enough, and became comfortable enough to act like myself.
2007-12-01 13:05:45
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answered by silentwhyte 1
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hi Lioness, i attempted to discover "objectified" and "objectification" in the dictionary and no excitement. nicely, i'm no longer precisely particular I understand your queston, yet think of i could have an theory. besides, have you ever heard of the "bell curve"? it is a curve it is formed like a bell and does a solid activity of representing documents. As for splendor, at one end of the curve we've the least alluring and on the different end the main. an identical could be real for earnings ... poorest on one area and richest on the different. in the midst of the bell we've all the traditional persons. i think of what you're saying is real, yet purely purely a actuality of existence. we've the whole spectrum for the two genders. As for why adult men do no longer protest ... i assume they understand that it is purely the way issues are and protests are no longer vulnerable to alter something. desire this facilitates!
2016-10-18 12:43:39
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answered by ? 4
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Well not all of us do!And if they do do that it seems silly to me.I don't change my voice i still sound the same before and after i came out.I sound like a kid [though i'm 18] and i don't know why my voice just hasn't gotten deep yet.But i didn't change my voice and if someone did after they came out it would annoy me too.
2007-12-01 10:09:28
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answered by Anonymous
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That's funny, that happened to me last Friday, my voice seemed a little weak so I started speaking a little slower and then a female voice appeared. It appears that being homosexual effects the hormones in the male body. It is possible that the brain produces Estrogen upon homosexuality, but I don't have a clue.
2007-12-01 11:37:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Firstly try noticing the difference between "there" and "their".
I burst out laughing thinking of closeted people using "normal" voices until they could change to an "abnormal" voice once "coming out"!!!!! What about "straight" people who have high camp voices? Are theirs "normal"???
2007-12-01 10:13:05
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answered by Raymo 6
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I think you are generalising I am gay and came out a long time ago and my voice is exactly the same as it was before i came out
2007-12-02 03:03:00
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answered by Anonymous
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do they never noticed all my friends that have came out there voices didnt change they just got more comfortable when they did let it out
2007-12-02 04:34:28
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answered by Sean H 2
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Sorry, but you are doing what many do with religion, ethnic backgrounds etc/ You are putting every gay men in a box and saying this is what they do.
That is not true. I have many gay friends, males and females, and I do not know one that has changed their voice when "they come out".
You have to look at individuals as unique, each one different and maybe one or two, do change their voice, but I have never known any that do/
2007-12-01 09:39:23
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answered by Maureen S 7
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I think it just sounds less muffled when people come out of the closet.
2007-12-01 10:55:15
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answered by Paulo 5
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