Unfortunately I have stayed involved for the past yr with someone as a "friend" who I was involved with for business.. when the business got too tough- he started a relationship with a horrible woman , who dislikes me strongly, but is so sugar coated that she masks it- like all of her efforts for the 2+ years when we were together --"just trying to help, thank you so much, etc
I stayed due to business obligations. The continual lies or omissions relating to his life have continued for the year.
We were so close and trusted each other... now i do not talk to him (told him to stop calling last month- just email). I still handle all the other related bus problems...
The girlfriend is a self-proclaimed credit, real estate expert- and the business matters involve these areas. Why is she not handling them?
I loved him & still do. I can't beleive that I could have so wrong about a person and beleive that time will bring us back t. Is cutting him off the best to realize this? Too hollywood?
2007-12-01 06:51:02 · 2 answers · asked by crs 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder, stop it all together and He may just see who really loves him.
2007-12-03 11:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad always says, "screw me once, shame on you. screw me twice, shame on me." If you continue to be hurt by this person then you have no choice but to cut all ties. You can't surround yourself with people who don't care about you or your feelings. You deserve more than that. However, people make mistakes and if you really believe you could be together again, you maybe owe it to yourself to find out.
Good Luck
2007-12-01 10:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by kygirl88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋