My ex-boyf called me after having no contact for one month. He broke up with me in the beginning of the year and the break was so hard. He hated the fact that I asked for no contact to heal myself from it because I still loved him so much. Last month he came to see me and we had a very nice time but I told him that if we cannot be together, we need to go separate ways. I hated doing it because I want to be with him but he says we cannot be together if we live in different countries. I was missing him so much last month but I was trying to be strong not to contact him. I am going away for about 3 months next year and he said it scares him. He called me this week to say he wants to work things out, solutions how to be closer but he wants to wait until after I come back from my time away. He does not want to do it now. I told him that I want to see him and he said he is scared to meet me as he suffered from it last time when we met as he saw me crying. He said to wait until I come back.
2007-12-01 05:44:59 · 5 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He told me he loves me and he admited he wasn't the best boyfriend. He says he doesn't want to be with me now though but he wants to try to work things out after I come back. But I don't understand why. He keeps saying as he hates being in a long-distance as we were for almost 3 years. I just don't know what to do.
2007-12-01 05:45:51 · update #1
You made the choice.....now you must live with it. That's life.
2007-12-01 08:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to it - If you love him, work things out with him. I hope things go as you wish. Long distance relationships are horrible, i know. Life can be so hard at times. I really hope things go as you want them to. x
2007-12-01 13:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i wish i can answer that for you but you have to follow your heart and have a heart to heart with im before you leave .. Good luck
2007-12-01 14:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by JINE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan B... just like I told you...
You are beautiful and worth so much more!
2007-12-01 13:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, its not that he wants you; he just doesn't want anyone else to have you.
An unsavoury but human trait.
2007-12-01 14:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋