i fink im st8 and like girls but what does a 13 year old boy feel is hes gay. what are the signs
2007-12-01 04:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are a couple questions that you need to ask yourself:
1. You said you think you like girls...so have you ever liked one? or do you currently?
2. Have you ever looked at a guy and thought he was cute and found yourself liking him more than anyone else?
These are just several questions that you should ask yourself. You might not be gay, and just not interested in a girl right now. Or you could be bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to men and women. Or finally, you could be gay...because by asking this question you are questioning your sexuality which is a possible sign that you might be gay.
You might not know right away, and that's ok. Just live your life the way you want, and you will find yourself. It will be ok. :)
2007-12-01 04:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderer89 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay. First of all. Ignore people like the ones above me who say rude things about bananas or say "gay isn't real." Also ignore answers that say you're gay if you get aroused while looking at your guy friends. That's not how it works. I'm bi, and I dont feel that way about my girl friends. Being gay doesn't mean that you're attracted to every boy that breathes.
Next. There are no "signs." If you like girls, but are attracted to guys, you may just be curious. Or you could be Bi (meaning you like both.) But, there are plenty of straight people who can look at someone of their same gender and think that they're good looking.
I'd say, chill out. It can take a while to decide if you're gay, or bi, or straight. You don't have to label yourself right this second. You have plenty of time to decide.
And DONT listen to people who post on this that you should CHOOSE to be one or the other. It doesn't work like that. You can't help how you FEEL.
If you find someone you like, boy or girl, try dating them. You may find that dating one or the other feels more comfortable.
2007-12-01 12:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by I_Ride_Catbus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's ok everyone has a point in their life where they wonder if they could be bi or gay or someting else (?!?) it' normal to wonder about your identity,, but is there a girl at school that you are attracted to? That you would want to spend signifigant amounts of time with, and not just to talk? Then your most likely straight. Hate to be stereotypical but some signs of being gay are having good fashion sense, singing, dancing, acting, and silky/tigh clothing. And wanting to wear makeup and talkin like a girl (giggy and more pronunciation on S's) now there are guys who do all them things and are TOTALLY STRAIGHT!!! It's just that gay guys seem to lean to them things. If u were gay, u would hav a more-than-buddy feelin for a guy-friend at school or where ever. If you lik a girl(s) and or find her/them attractive, it's okay, ur good. Lik i daid, it's normal for everyone to wonder whether or not they might be gay.
2007-12-01 12:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not seem to be attracted to girls, You find yourself checking out guys alot, you start getting attracted to them. You have alot or girl friends because guys think your a fag (girls are suckups to gay guy because they can relate better to them then a straight guy). You start acting really fem like you know a girl with act and you, may start doing the gay hand things the one's gay guys and girls do. So there you go! Good luck on finding if your gay or not.
2007-12-01 12:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_tangerine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not gay stop it, you would know already we are told. Your going to give yourself an ulcer, so you are maybe looking at how some guys do their hair or what styles they wear that is only because you may like that style doesn't mean you are gay at all, girls do that too, look at what other girls wear and how they apply make up, this is what we call girl talk...Don't let society dictate to you be true to yourself in life and you will be happy, don't try to become something you are not just to gain popularity, you are unique let yourself shine I'm sure your stunning.
2007-12-01 12:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Too soon to tell,I think it might just be a phase.I think all boys your age go through that.If you find that you can't stop thinking about another boy,then maybe,but if it's just that your scared you might be that's just a normal phase.
2007-12-01 12:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it you just know...I've known it since i was 8 but back then i didn't really understand it do some research...i guess wikipedia would be a good place to look I'll post a link and you can find out who you are yourself
2007-12-01 13:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to boys. You could possibly be Bi if you feel you like both girls and guys.
2007-12-01 12:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by gunslinger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok well what i have heard... if ur sexually attracted to a male then ur gay. but if you have no feelings what so ever! u like girls... but if u can't make up ur mind... ur bi. But here is some tips:
ok find another gay guy. go out with them see if u like it
then go out with a girl.
then see which one u liked better. the choice is urs
2007-12-01 12:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by .::Katie::. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you feel closer to your male friends, without knowing why ,and even if you like girls you still feel that something about being close to boys that is not necessarily sex related, but is intense
2007-12-01 12:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by Andres A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋