i'm like too senstive.
i used to not care that i'm sensitive but i'm going to high school next school year & i really gotta toughen up.
i've been through ALOT this week.
seriously!
it's been the worst week ever, i ever had in life! well, not when i was in the mental hospital.
what happened this week:
-my old friend Paula [she's a 100% ***** now] spreaded rumors about me, lied about me, called me a *****, said some harsh things about me, turned some ppl against me, gave me some public humiliation, laughs at me, & denied everything she did to the principle so she didn't get in trouble! wtf?
-this ***** named Emily [actually a effin' biatch] said that i almost killed her on purpose [i didn't even touch her!], pointed at me, gave me strong evil looks, told me to go **** myself, & said that i threathened her. wtf? she used to be my friend also. she didn't get in trouble either!
why would the principle or the councelor let them go like that! this is so jacked up!
2007-12-01 01:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i already searched alot of websites on how to stop being so sensitive but i just don't get it. all they say is life experiences! alot & i mean ALOT of things happened in my life that most teens & kids don't go through & have but instead i got more sensitive after everything that has happened in my life!
so guys, please help me out here! i can't live like this anymore, i've had enough of this crap!
2007-12-01 01:38:44 · update #1
Its OK to be sensitive, but you don't want to have overwhelming insecurities or have a fragile ego. You need to learn that these things will not hurt your true worth, and your ego needs to be strong enough to handle the bad things that bad people say. If you act over-hurt by these thing, the bad people will keep saying that to go on hurting you. The fastest way to stop the bad comments is to act strong enough to handle them, then they will go find someone else to hurt. Be sensitive, but be strong enough to handle the bad guys. Its all about having a solid self-esteem. You are a beautiful person and that will never change with a some bad gossip.
2007-12-01 13:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to be someone you're not. I'm sensitive too. Read Elane Aron's book The Highly Sensitive Person to get a better appreciation of your traits!
2007-12-01 01:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me during high school!
Here's what I did:
1. Whenever they call me "biatch", I just smiled at them and said: "feeling insecured? then imitate me!"
2. I focused more on studies. I proved them that I'm not just a "biatch"(as they think)...
3. Made some new friends..
and girl, you know yourself better than they do. don't let them ruin your life. don't fear them. YOU MUST BE THE ONE SCARING THEM OFF. don't show them that you're affected. always smile. in that way, they'll stop (i promise).
and true friends will always be there to help you and believe you. find some TRUE FRIENDS. ;-)
2007-12-01 02:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could try this , if she points at you or talks about you behind your back just give her a , { Oh ,there you are talking about me again smile , as if sticks and stones are the only thing that herts you . Don't let her know . just smile and knod , like " Ya Thats me I'm Always doing something stupid " dont let her know that it herts , YOU know it , and I know it But ... pretend shes right , and apologise for being the dits only you and me your not .
2007-12-01 01:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not being too sensitive. You are too emotional due to lack of peace of mind. See site below with advice for teen girls, then see page on finding happiness (What is Enlightenment).
2007-12-01 01:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what Dreamer said............
2007-12-01 01:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Richard F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋