It doesn't have to be one that you've overcome, just one that you're aware of.
I have realized that I am shallow*. It's sad, but I have come to terms with reality. I don't want to be, but I am.
*If you are going to rant and rave about my shallowness, at least make it worth reading. If you're just downing me to be negative, just imagine your father shaking his head in disgust thinking, "....out of all that sperm YOU won the race."
2007-12-01 00:40:25 · 12 answers · asked by King of Biscuits 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't even know how to explain this one. I always think that people don't like me. It's crazy because everytime I have a going away party from a job that I've left or when Christmas comes along or my birthday, people are always there for me. I don't feel it's a low self esteem issue but perhaps maybe something that I carried with me due to something that happen as a child. I know I make people laugh and I'm good at making people feel comfortable. People do like me and I'm a good person I know this but I still can't help feeling this way.
2007-12-01 03:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by ShrunkenFro™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got a real big problem with sayin the first thing that comes to my mind..especially when I'm mad. Now that's one thing I need to work on but I have definitely come to terms with the fact that, that's how I am and quite frankly, I don't see me changing it no time soon. And I think it's pretty good that you can admit you're shallow and you've come to terms with it because some people are in denial and don't want to admit they have flaws and bad habits.
2007-12-01 01:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i noticed as ive gotten older and im only 23 mind you that people just get on my nerves. ive noticed i talk to certain people less and i actually have less true friends. your friends from highschool dont want to grow up and when you do it becomes difficult to relate to them. when you get to that point in life that your working and living on your own and your friends have every excuse in the world to there bad decisions, they make me mad. some are 24 to 26 and dont have jobs or there own vehicles. some are having kids and wont work but will accept welfare. my 20 year old brother and his new wife just had a baby 3 weeks ago and there complaining about money. but they tell me there going to buy a new tv and a playstation when they get there tax money. there living in an apartment with a new baby and there spending money like that.. the relationships with people are so much different when you become an adult. i think you kinda become a hermit and block it all out lol lol........i really dont think you overcome it, just deal with it..
2007-12-01 00:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being imprefect. I am a perfectionist but if im not really interested in something I am hopeless. Then I beat myself up for doing a lesser job, i can't compromise with myself.
Although it seems to be a problem about actually overcoming resistance too, as if by ignoring something it will go away, anyhow I call this bad thing I do appathetic, from apathy, or maybe i can call it laziness.
Ah well you got two for one lol
2007-12-01 00:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by heardcrombie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one flaw I have ..is..I can''t believe I'm answering this question. Did your dad really do or say that? No wonder you have a warped sense of what the real world is like. We all have flaws. Most of us learn how to deal with them in our own ways. I guess I'm shallow also. However...I do like Monday night football.
2007-12-01 01:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by chilicooker_mkb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess one flaw that I have come to terms with is I'm kinda sorta an attention whore. Not that my parents ignored me at all when I was growing up, but when someone shows me some positive attention, I may have to put the breaks on for them, because I AM faithful to my man, but it's really nice to be admired.
*giggle*
2007-12-01 01:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by MamiZ-Notorious Faithful Freak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many agree with you , from what i hear there just isn't the work out there and the conditions are far from good , many in their 50s are despondent about the present and future and in limbo too old to be accepted or perform and too young to hang up their guns . brave of you to speak out i applaud you !
2016-05-27 02:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was spoilt when i was younger .
im only 15 and im having to
learn how not to act so brattish .
its a terrible flaw.
but im getting better now
and i try really hard not to demand so much .
but when i have to live on my own is when i will really
test myself.
2007-12-01 00:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That I speak before I think.
I've learned to back track and apologize (many times over).
2007-12-01 00:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by lippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the world is not a nice place, sometimes you just gotta be a ***** to make it through
2007-12-01 02:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by GOLDENFAIRY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋