ok how bout this my wife has a male friend at work that at the begining of our relationship was hitting on her and disrepecting me. but now they are friends but they talk about sex he tells her about his sexual experiences is that cheating because she talks about them too to him
2007-12-01 00:10:17 · 31 answers · asked by jer r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whenever a married person shares secrets with someone else, its emotional cheating, which can lead to an affair. he has an agenda here, and that's to seduce your wife, he knows its inappropriate but doesn't care. your wife has no respect for herself or u, if she did she would not be discussing this with him.
2007-12-01 00:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People have different opinions about what's considered cheating, so it's up to partners to decide what the "rules" are for their relationship.
Many people agree that there are six basic qualities to healthy, loving relationships: respect, trust, honesty, fairness, equality, and good communication. Everyone is different when it comes to dating rules, so people should sit down with their partners and agree on what counts as cheating in their relationships.
When in doubt about whether or not something "counts," you might want to think twice if
You have to hide it or lie about it.
It'll lower your partner's self-esteem.
You feel guilty about it.
You wouldn't want your partner to do it.
A person being involved in an emotional or sexual relationship other than their spouse or SO. By emotional I don't mean the friendship or family kind of emotional. A person can cheat on a partner by falling love with someone else and not having sex with that new person.
2007-12-01 11:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear be cool, as u can't it as a cheating. always think about positive side of things. as might be your wife wants to satisfy you more sexually and there are many things which one can't ask his/ her partner but wants to satisfy him/her more to enjoy their relationship with their spouse. so mere talking and sharing there experiences is not a cheating but positively a good thing as it shows how much concern your other half is showing by thinking how to make you happy and enjoy the life more and more . till friendship ,talking and sharing is not to worry at all, untill they start doing themselves. and if they then your wife is not worth for you forget her but if she only talks love her because she loves you more then anything and wants to give you all what a man wants ofcourse with the help of herfriend but thats not problem as there good friends also in this friend. and think the pleasure you get when your wife exactly did the same thing what you wants from her to do without telling her. surprise always make sexual life more pleasurable. isn't it
2007-12-01 09:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by yukta s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Friends???Yeah right!!!!! They are in the beginning of an emotional affair...This person is crossing the line of "YOUR" marriage and having no problem getting your spouses attention...
You need to find out "WHY" your wife enjoys this kind of attention that clearly at the office is considered a "Sexual Harrassment Violation" that other women would REPORT..Not be amused by.......
Good luck
2007-12-01 09:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. At the beginning of your relationship if he was interested into her well she was fair play. He was interested so he let her know before it got too serious with you. Looks like she picked you!
2. The fact that they talk about their personal sexual experiences is not cheating but I can assure you HE is still interested into her, it's just a tactic for him. As for her, she is just stupid to think he's not interested into her that way.
2007-12-01 08:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically, no, it isn't cheating. The guy would probably love to cheat with your wife, but most likely she is content to be his friend. As long she is just talking to him, the fact that they talk about sex wouldn't make her an adulteress.
2007-12-01 09:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, your wife should be talking to you about se*, not to him, I would not call it cheating, but I would call it her talking about her private life and her married life to a total stranger, and that is not right.
You are her husband, she should be talking to you, talk to her and tell her that it bothers you and you do not want your personal life out on the street where she is putting it!!!!
It is nobody elses business but your wife's and your's what goes on behind closed doors and what goes on in your house should stay there and only between you and your wife.
2007-12-01 08:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife allows this man to talk to her this way as well she contributes to this kind of conversation.
This man owes you nothing...however he should respect the fact that she's married.
If your wife had any kind of respect for you she would end this so called friendship with this man.
This type of behaviour leads to other things.
What your wife and this man are doing is a form of cheating..they are flirting with each other....tell her to end it now...if she refuses you'll know who means more to her.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-12-01 08:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not "cheating", But it is disrespectful. That is not appropiate. That kind of talk between people of the opposite sex only leads to one thing. The only thing that matters is that the spouse doesn't like it, so it's wrong.
2007-12-01 08:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that they are friends enough that they can talk about it comfortably. It is another issue if they act out on it. However, it sounds like to me that you have a trust issue with your wife. I would have a honest chat with her on how you feel about this subject.
2007-12-01 08:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by acedelux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋