How do you figure it?

Question

So, could you and why would you...

Be with someone for 4 years, leave this time last year, come back 2 months later, leave again 6 months later, after you left second time, lead the 'left' one on for 2 months, then a few weeks pass by then all of a sudden you have found someone and moved on?

(By the way...please don't say that person was there all along, cuz they weren't....this person was met through a text messaging service on a cell for a month and a half from the other side of the state, then met only in person for a week, and that's when it was said. I know for a fact cuz I seen the phone bills before)

The person who left is Bipolar (untreated and unmedicated)
I have psyc problems too but I have been getting help for last 2 years. I have been putting forth a little more effort then the other party.

Answer 1

If they are bi-polar they can hardly be blamed for erratic behavior. Are they getting treatment?

Answer 2

Lol, I love that, bi-polar LMAO!!!! Ether way, any psyc problem is going to be due to your history. People with normal upbrings can handle the natural comings and goings of depression and mania, guess what! ITS F'IN NATURAL!!! What do you think other people get less depressed? Never mind, never mind, that aside, realize this individual just plain doesn't know HOW to love you, so you trying to make sense out of that is going to kick your own butt. Usually if a person gets that sigmata thrown at them, its because their purposeless, lost, and undriven by ANY guiding light to their descions. So really shield yourself from indivdiuals like this, their behavior is only understood by them. You'd have to look pretty deep into their story to know yourself. But for it to get to this point, you never tried.... so don't be so desprate to bring just anyone into your lives. Remember hitlers friends thought he was one heck of a guy, and the road to heck is paved in good intentions. Fight for love, don't settle......