i'm talked about being gay at school what should i do? what should i say? everyone seems to be making a BIG deal about it... i hate it... everyone has a image of me to be a certain way, i'm proud to be GAY, but am not fully open about it, yet, only with close friends i trust. What should my response be to those i don't know well if they ask me, "are you gay or bisexual?"... should i tell them "it's non of you business!" what should my response to this be??? help me...
2007-11-30 18:24:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hahahahhahhahahaha . be home schooled
2007-11-30 18:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Ask them why it matters so bloody darn much to them. Simply ask.- "Why is it so important to you? It's just a sexuality." But say it in a polite, pleaant way. A rude tone will set the arena for a fight.
Or ... Them-"Are you gay or bisexual?"
You... "Why? Are you interested?"
In a joke like tone. It wont give them a way into asking you any further questions, it mocks them but also makes fun of the whole situation in general. When it has humour, people forget about fighting. Trust me on that one.
If anyone has anything rude to say about your sexuality, you tell them that it's noneof their business who you choose to have a relationship with. If they think it is, then you by all means have the right to tell them off about any of theirs, and ask them if they want you to. If they dont want it, then they can leave yours alone.
Or you can take an approach to act as though no one finds homosexuality/bisexuality strange or wrong and act as though everyone thinks it's completley and utterly normal. This blocks their questioning. It also reminds those stupid phobes that you are still a HUMAN BEING! That'll shock their pride. This is a lot of stuff you can do to get em off your back. (Wear a Gay Pride T-Shirt too.)
2007-11-30 18:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just laugh at them and say nah ur mum is or something, who cares who you get hard over seriously, its 2007 and people still care who is doing who gawd people get over it, it aint no ones business who you're doing except yours.
no matter how you answer the question you will be bagged out anyway, if you say no you're gay, if you say yes, you're gay either way ya rooted so answer it however you see fit!
Its like the old school joke about "what would you do if a gayt guy was on your back? leave him there or pull him off"
my answer was always leave him there for a while and then pull him off, then do the same to him.
people were so shocked they didnt beleive it, maybe you could say next time your asked, no im not gay im a professional Ck sucker
2007-11-30 18:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Micheal Jones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be offensive and judging, because I was in this same situation (as so many others before or after me...), but wasn't this question just asked on here?
Just tell'm to eff off unless they wanna have a "go"? Be confident, be strong and be yourself. Society applies labels, don't let it bother you. Nothin wrong with a proud, gay student. Be the example and maybe you can help others. Role models are the best!
2007-11-30 18:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by jake3614 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all - you shouldn't care what other people think of you.. because really.. if they think differently of you, its their problem, yes it may hurt you but by showing them that it is hurting you, you only make it easier for them to make fun of you......... and as for replying to people when they are you if ur gay or bi.. say yes and ask them if they have a problem because you should be proud of who you are instead of hiding it. i know you might get bullied perhaps with this approach.. but i guess in the long run.. it can be a good thing cuz if its like that at school, imagine in the real world how cruel people are.
2007-11-30 18:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough situation. It is extremely rude for people to directly to ask you about your sexual orientation unless they are genuinely concerned, or a true friend. They are asking to be rude. If someone is rude to you, it is good to be the bigger person. I would answer a question with a question, perhaps to teach them a lesson. ask them like, "um.. did your girlfriend cheat on you last night?" Or, "didn't I see you making out with your best friend the other day?" "Or, don't you have a crush on...?" etc Good luck, and stay proud!
2007-11-30 18:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by jjefrench 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say "does it really matter if i'm gay or bi or whatever?" i certainly don't care what people are if they have the a good heart, it doesn't matter. So don't go like "it's none of your business" and be proud of who you are. Just go "Yes i am, so what?" That is my opinion, you can listen to it or do whatever you life, it's YOUR life anyways.
2007-11-30 18:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by imperfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im not gay, but do what you feel comfortable doing. If you feel that they are going to make a big deel out of it, then dont tell them unless you are ready for that kind of response. Its not up to us to decide for you. If they are the kind of people who you trust, and they are going to accept who you are, and you feel confident telling them, then tell them!
2007-11-30 18:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they ask you just be like either "Do your parents know that you are?" or "if I am, is that really any of your business?" or even "f*** you. go bone a car." haha thats just me.
oh, and if a girl asks, just be like, "yeh wanna go check out guys with me?"
also, ask them if they are.
or just tell them yes, because hot dogs taste better than carpet!
hahah sorry. according to some people im perverted with my jokes...i have a dirty mind, you could say. Although that is a good one....xD
Good luck! <3
2007-11-30 18:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be blunt and tell them that it is no more business of theirs if you are gay, than it is your business to demand a description of the sex they had last night with their lovers. It's none of their business. You can also show them that you are not afraid of them by looking them straight in in eye and say "What if I am, you interested?"
2007-11-30 18:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by GasLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 08:58:45 · answer #11 · answered by nisbett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋