be mad at my friend? I am mad at her too by the way. lets say her name is Anni. I was playing a joke on my friend Tanya. i brought cookies to school and i wasn't going to give her one when I gave everyone else one. A couple of my other friends thought it would be funny when i told them about it before school. At lunch I gave everyone a cookie except Tanya and then anni was like gosh why don't you give her a cookie? So i took her aside told her to promise not to tell Tanya and i told her the story. Then we sat down and Anni left with tanya and when they came back tanya was mad at me. I got mad at Anni after that. the next day was the dance and my friend amanda told her boyfriend she wasn't going, just so he wouldn't go and then she did go. he ended up going to and i asked why he came, cuz usually hes not the typoe to go to those sorts of things unless amanda is there and he said because anni told him how amanda lied. so now tanya, me, amanda, a different amanda are mad at her for that. Also a friend of ours named Danni is mad at her because she elbowed her in the chin on purpose in a game in gym( I was there and saw it happen) Do you think we all have a right to be mad at her? We all know we can’t trust her now of course. All the people that I didn’t say anything about a story why they should be mad at her are mad at her cuz of the me thing and the Amanda thing. And by the way Tanya isn’t mad at me anymore. She was only mad until the morning of the dance. Wut do you think of this situation?
2007-11-30 16:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wasn't purpously not sharing with them. there was more to the joke and i was going to give her a cookie in the end anyway but then she got all mad and then she left so fast when lunch was over (which was right when she came back from talking with anni) it would just be a really long long story if i told you everything cuz it kinda goes way back so i just gave you the basics.
2007-11-30 17:04:26 · update #1
also i really think that what my friend amanda did to her boyfriend was stupid and wrong and stuff cuz she has been really mean to him lately and treats him like dirt sometimes. and the joke i did was just a joke we kind of kid around alot and i was going to tell tanya and it's not like i was going to keep it from her the whole time.
2007-11-30 17:07:24 · update #2
and i haven't given her the silent treatment we've talked about it and stuff
2007-11-30 17:08:48 · update #3
and i just wanted to be sure people know that it looks mean wut i wrote first what the joke was, but there is more to it aboiut a long story of something that happened in class and i didn't tell you the joke. i just wanted to make sure you knew what anni did. but you still shouldn't tell someone something if you promised to keep it a secert. and it's not like those are the only 2 times she didn't keep her promises and told people stuff, it's happened before.
2007-11-30 17:12:36 · update #4
I think a lot of friendships are ruin because of stupid things...I'm not pointing fingers at you, but this is my thing (and I'm honest and helpful...ask people).....trust goes a long way and if you don't have trust....you have nothing. Thats like saying 'I love my boyfriend...I just can't trust him'...it makes sense to some degree but then it doesn't. I understand she blurts a lot of things out when she shouldn't and she ruins the fun, but you need to address that to her instead of giving her the silent or mean treatment. Amanda has to explain why she didn't want her boyfriend to go on her own. If you feel as though this ruined the friendship and don't want to be in it, then gently tell Anni that and explain yourself so you don't leave a case open
2007-11-30 17:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to quit being mean to people to entertain yourself. Purposely not sharing with someone who is supposed to be your friend, so you and everyone else can laugh at them is wrong.
2007-12-01 00:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what grade are you guys in? the whole situation sounds rather immature to begin with. no offense but everyone just needs to grow up
2007-12-01 01:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by enyaw78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. that was kinda mean..
and no you shoudln't be mad at anni..
i mean she's a good friend
telling her friends what's happening to their friends
2007-12-01 01:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lulubell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-01 01:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋