How do you get control of your life?

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Answer 1

Seperate yourself for a minute....then be honest and look at what caused you to lose control? What exactly is out of control. And roll up your sleeves and clean up the mess. Face it head on. Dont try and do it alone if you cant. Accept your limitations. And dont beat yourself up. We are all human. We all make poor choices. Hang out with the wrong people. Dont do what we know we should be doing. Stay away from what we shouldnt be doing. Most of all, stay away from people who arent supportive when youre trying to get control back. The I told you so's. The what did you think would happen? And the I knew youd coe knocking needing me to help so if you want it you have to do it my way. Allowing those people in your life would be like losing control of your car while the passenger pulls on your steering wheel and pulls the emergency brake on ice. Just be honest with yourself. Believe in yourself. And know no matter what everything will be ok. Youre all good.

Answer 2

By realizing that you have little control over the things that happen to you. The true control comes in how you view life and how you let things affect you. Know that you have complete control over how you view your life events (i.e. A tragedy vs. opportunity for growth). It may be hard at first to see things in a more positive light, but practice makes perfect as with most things. If you are feeling like you don't have control of your life take some time for reflection and think about what is controlling your life. If something is causing you to feel unhappy or depressed know that you can break the cycle. Once you realize that you perspective is what allows you to be happy rather than your situation, it becomes easier to change your situation. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

I guess it depends on why you lost it or if you ever had it. If you had control & lost it then you need to think back on why that happened. Not that you can ever go back ,but you can learn from the experience & the move forward to where you want to be next in your life. If you never had control in the first place then you need to decide whats keeping you from that now & plan out where exactly you want to be in your life . Then take steps to make that happen.This won't happen overnight but anything worth doing usually takes time so -Good luck, hope that is helpful.

Answer 4

SOME PEOPLE think with sending a long opinion but i usually dont use a long message...well my comment is only plan life is the plan that the god made it and if we dont have plan we cant do our even routin works. THEN if we have a plan for everyday we exact know what should we do in morning, night ect. my life controls with a plan.

Answer 5

You have to think that this is your life your controlling...You can't let the life control you. Watch everything and make sure you don't make any mistakes that makes your life go the wrong direction. For more details watch Oprah :)

Answer 6

I never had the control 'cause I'm a young girl... but I think I prefer someone with me (always). Someone who tell me "you're wrong because this and that" or "good! I'd had the same idea in that case"

I'm very responsible but I don't like to be alone if I have to decide something.

Answer 7

Honestly come to Christ.
God's Holy Spirit will come and live on the inside of you, and empower you to do what you couldn't on your own. Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge,
but fools despise wisdom and discipline.

Fear here in this context means Holy reverence.

Once you give your life to Christ, you will be with Christ and God will give you His wisdom to overcome anything in life. If you so believe.

Confess out loud and from your heart the sinners prayer first ( go here and look where it says sinners prayer). http://www.born-again-christian.info/sinners.prayer.htm

Answer 8

# We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable.

# Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

# Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

# Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

# Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

# Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

# Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

# Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

# Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

# Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

# Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

# Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Answer 9

Think deeply before u do any thing.We have not been taught how to think profoundly...we should learn it ourselves..may of our problems are the result of being panic to decide & not thinking that much.
Think & plan for you future ,know yourself & discover your abilities then improve them through permanant exercise.

Answer 10

go skydiving. like the girl above name says. if you dont control your jump, your flight, your pull and your landing , your dead. if that doesnt make you take control of your life, nothing will.