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Question

okay im almost 15 and my girlfriends turning 15 in 2 months but shes pregnant....wut do i do..wut do i tell her parents???this is bad isnt it???i wore protection but it leaked or sumthin...wut do i do??

Answer 1

you shouldn't be having sex if you can't deal with a possible pregnancy because of it.

What you need to do is tell your parents about what is happening and that your girlfriend is pregnant. you need to have her talk to her parents as well. your parents will be able to help you figure out what to do

Answer 2

Well, I guess you are going to learn to grow up very quickly... I do hope that you are not considering abortion, though it is an option. There are places like planned parenthood that can help with major decisions, with no judgment. I would start there. It's not the end of the world. You have options... you could have the baby, and do your best to raise the child (you are still a child, but I had a girlfriend in high school who had a child at 14...it's hard). I believe you would need a lot of support from your/her parents. Don't assume that your/her parents would disown you/her. They are your/her parents, and want the best for you/her. Also, there is always the option of adoption... you wouldn't believe how many wonderful couples there are out there that would do anything to have a child, but just simply can't. You could provide a very amazing blessing. There are even some adoption agency that allow there to be a relationship between the adopted child and the biological parents, if that would be something you would be interested in. Don't panic... it will be okay.

Answer 3

I understand that you are nervous. The first thing you need to do is take a deep breath. Its going to be ok, really. It will work out. You need to tell her that its time to tell her parents. Go together and sit them down maybe with a counselor from school or something so that if something happens, someone is there for either you or the parents. It is bad...because i would say you are too young to be having sex but i made the same mistake. I also started having sex when i was 15. Mistakes happen hun and you just have to live up to them. Its time to take responsability for what you are doing in life. I got pregnant when i was 15 and ended up having a miscarriage so i dont exactly know what shes going through but im sure she is scared to death. Be there for her. Dont abandon her. I know its just as scary for you..but remember...you need to be there for her through this hard time because shes going to need the help. She needs the comfort of the man (you are a man now...think about that.) that got her pregnant. This baby is going to need you just as much if not more.

Things happen for a reason. There is a reason the protection failed. Although the reason isn't clear just yet, it will be in due time. This is your child. A little life that you created that is just yours. There will never be another one like it. Tell her parents now so that she can get the healthcare she needs to have a healthy happy child.

Good luck and if you guys need anything else..just let me know. Ive been there done that.

Answer 4

Firstly i know this wasn;t mentioned but i have to say this: I don't think that anyone should force your girlfriend to have an abortion or to give the child up if that is not what she wants. I am saying this because I know how many parents ( not all of them) but most think along those terms. You made a mistake simple as that and now you and your girlfriend have to decide what YOU BOTH and only you two want to do, you have people out there who will help and support you if you decide to raise this child and you can get help from government if you need it. Please dont let your parents or her parents force your girlfriend to have an abortion it's her choice she may be young but its her body and no one has the right to make her do something she isn't comfortable with. Tell her to tell her mum and go to the doctor to confirm if she is infact pregnant, if she had a positive test then she mostl likely is. I think at 15 you are too young to be having sex but each person is in charge of governing how they feel and how responsible they feel. If you feel like you need help or your girlfriend would like someone who isn;t family to chat too call a pregnancy hot line or kidshelp line for advice. good luck

Answer 5

At least you tried using some protection even though it failed. What you need to do is tell both your parents and hers straight away! They are going to be really angry with you both because they would have wanted you both to get an education and do more with your life before even thinking about starting a family! But what's done is done, it's not good but there's no way to change things now, so you have to take responsibility for your actions. If for some reason you feel you can't tell your parents go to a counsellor at school and talk to them, they will be able to help you tell them. By telling your parents they will hopefully be able to help you both figure out what you are going to do. Best of luck!

Answer 6

First, you should talk to each other. You have to be adults now and decide how you will tell your famillies. Second, make sure she gets to the doctor so she can start her prenatal vitamins and get regular checkups.
As bad as it may seem it's ot the end of the world, you're not the first 15 year old father. Just be smart about things and ask for help and support from your family.
I wish you both good luck.

Answer 7

Calm down for one.... It is now time to act like a grown up You made the grown up decision to have sex now its time to deal with it. You and your girlfriend are obviously going to have to tell both of your parents. and as for you you need to be there for her. Yes this is very scary for both of you but There are Many Many great couples out there who are unable to have children that would be able to give the baby the best life. a stable life. You to are very young and it may sound like fun now to have a baby and do the whole grown up thing but this is forever and it involves a child who you will be responsible. and eventually reality will set in and it is very scary to really do these things. Of course i can not tell you what to do but I know Adoption is a wonderful thing and gives your child a chance to have a wonderful life and it gives you both more time to grow up before you really start a family you both have so much life still to live what ever choice you make. This may be your chance to make a grown up decision and give this baby a chance at a great life. I will keep you both in my prayers..

Answer 8

It is really a big problem. Pregnancy can never be kept as a secret. However, you should be brave young man, both of you made a decision, you should be able to face it. talk it over with your parents, they will help you what to do. Wearing protection does not really mean 100% safe according to studies. First, you really have to be sure if your GF is pregnant, at her age, her menstruation might not be that regular. If she missed- period, don't panic, have a doctor to check on it. Ciao!

Answer 9

Well, protection isn't 100% safe but don't worry eventually everything will be fine. Your parents will most definitely freak out but as the days go by things will calm down and that little baby will soon be the best thing that ever happened to you. Good luck to you and your girlfriend!

Answer 10

You tell her that you are going to be their for her whatever her choice is. Ask her if she has told her parents or the father. And try to explain to her that it is NOT the end of the world. Dont tell her parents she should. Plus she is going though a really hard time the last thing she needs is to not trust her friend. The most important thing is to be their for her.

Hope I help