I am a 13 year old boy. I masturbate about every day. After i do it i kinda feel a bit bad afterwards. Iv been doing it for a while and i almost always do it watching porn. is this normal? is masturbation wrong? should i stop? will something happen to my health if i dont? it feels really good and i love it only i want to know if its normal and if my friends are doing it. thanks
2007-11-30 15:09:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It's normal and all your friends are doing it.. relax and enjoy, you are completely normal.
2007-11-30 15:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by TommyBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian and I masturbate - it is one of the few subjects that the church can't really have an opinion on because it isn't mentioned the Bible (most likely because it was considered normal). It is, as far as I can see, a great thing. But don't watch the porn while you do it. Trust me, its better without it, when you can focus on making yourself feel good and not fulfilling lustful desires. And if it is a sin, its true - you are not going to hell for it. Just be careful. And quit the porn.
2007-11-30 23:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by sahire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal. Especially in males. In fact, masturbation is great, because it makes you feel good AND KEEPS YOU HEALTHY!
Masturbation is a way to clean out the urinary canals and stop body fluids from clogging.
I understand that you feel bad about it, but this will pass, as you realize that your doing nothing wrong. Hell, even your parents do it!
As for the porn, I would refrain from that, as you should try stimulating yourself by yourself.
Good luck with your problem!
2007-12-02 20:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by ktluvaxx♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so simple...if masturbation is a good choice, then what it is when you cannot stop?
Many people have trained their brains to only enjoy sexuality if they are in control, like when they masturbate.
What happens when you view every attractive other person as an opportunity to satisfy your personal cravings.
My question back to you is this, Does the masturbation habit completely satisfy and fulfill our sexuality as humans or does it feed a warped addiction to selfish satisfaction?
If you say it is good and its your choice, then have a break for 4 weeks, only then you can say its a choice.
I say, it feels good, looks good, tastes good but for many it has consequences which do great harm. Be cautious and resist making the cravings your only compass.
2007-12-02 19:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally for a 13 year old boy in my eyes is just a little youhng to be watching porn?..... maybe just sitck to your own fantasies.... this way ther is no papertrail that your parents can follow. and everyday is... well... a bit much to me. maybe cool it down to everyother day? i might have a bit of a different opinion cuz i am a girl, but this is just my opinion so i hope i can help.
p.s.- masturbation is a HEALTHY thing and dont feel bad about releasing some stress in your life... even if there isn't that much.
2007-12-04 18:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry this is very normal for a boy your age and it will continue for a while. It's not wrong as long as you are doing it in private and nothing will happen to you it's not bad for your health. It's not wrong it's actually healthy because you need to have a release. Yes your friends are doing it too they just don't talk about it so don't feel bad!
2007-11-30 23:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sylvia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what your friends are doing. Masturbation is not wrong, it won't hurt you and its normal. There is no reason to feel bad about it. DONOT listen to rumors about it stunting growth, etc. there are many of those untruths. The truth is you can masturbate with out feeling guilty as much as you want to and nothing will happen to you except, as you said, it will feel really good. Jack on little bro. and enjoy.
2007-11-30 23:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Solo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and doesn't cause any bad effects. Most of your friends are probably doing it (even if they're too shy to say so), or will when their bodies mature enough.
Porn isn't a great idea, though. It's all fantasy stuff, sometimes very strange fantasies, and might give you a very distorted idea of what really goes on between men and women, and can give a very skewed impression of what's "normal" in men's and women's anatomy.
2007-12-01 12:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tom V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most boys 13 years old masturbate. i do [=
its perfectly normal. there is nothing wrong with watching porn and masturbating. theres nothing wrong with masturbating either.
2007-12-01 00:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax nothing is going to happend to you you a normal boy going threw puberty.
you can do it as fast or as hard as you want(if it starts to hurt i would stop)
you can do it as many time a day as you like
its not bad for you,
and last stop feeling bad your not going to hell becuse of it.
2007-11-30 23:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Arson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm only 10 and masturbate!! i sware i'm 10 and just masturbate like 2 minutes ago . . . trust me ur not alone
2007-12-02 21:35:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋