HELP! i am 13 only! oh god no :( am i pregnant?!?

Question

this rly happend 2 me..my name is annette i am only 13i turned 13 on september 13thone month later i had my very first periodi have 3 brothers 19 yrs,18yrs, and 5yrs This part i dread.Okay ever since i was little my oldest brother was ALWAYS and i mean ALWAYS perverted in really sick ways...he is now 19 and i am 13sometimes..at night..he will walk into my room very quietly in his underwear while i am sleeping, and tries to do some really
sick stuff to me :'( i yell at him and tell him to go,and he says to me to be quiet this happens in the middle of the night. its not only happend once, like 30 times. anyways..i havent had my period since my very first one oct13and its due nov13.if i bend backward my lower stomach hurts, and sometimes my left side hurts, i have multiple dark pink veins on my bottom stomach and upper breasts. when i stretch that part of my skin it shows the veins and when you dont they are dents.i have this really weird odor between my legs, it smells.whats happening..

i dont have a lock on my door ether, and sometimes he would do it with out me knowing..i think. no :( i dont want to loose my virginity yet! ESPECIALLY to my brother..he is really nice but he can get really pervy at times :( i am cry my eyes out i dont know what to do..

Answer 1

OMG, honey... you have to tell someone you trust what is happening to you. If your parents are out of the question, a teacher, a friends parents, somebody. Your brother is abusing you and you don't deserve that. He needs help for his problem and you will need help to overcome the hurt he has caused you. THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT! As far as you being pregnant, I can't answer that. Since you've just started having your period, it won't be normal for a while. Sometimes it takes many months or even longer for a young girls menses to regulate. It may mean nothing that you haven't had it, or it might. As far as the odor, that sounds like an infection which you may need to be treated for. Can you talk to your school nurse? You really, REALLY need to find an adult whom you trust and can help you. Best wishes.

Answer 2

Is your bro actually having sex with you? If so he needs to be reported right away. This is not normal. He has a problem. You telling will only get him help. Even if he gets into trouble you will be helping in the long run. This is NOT your fault. If you are pregnant (and it's by your brother) you defiantly need to tell your parents you don't want to have some inbred child. I wish the best for you good luck

Answer 3

Sweety, have you told anyone? Your mom, a teacher, counselor...someone needs to know he's been mean to you. You do not have to have sex to get pregnant. If he touches with his privates even close to yours, it is possible. Have you noticed any fluid on you? I ask for your sake & pray you aren't pregnant, but then again at your age, periods often are irregular and now you are stressed & rightfully so and that alone can stop or make a period not come one month every now & then, but you need to get to a doctor ASAP STAT!!!! What age can you go in your state privately? Where they won't tell your parents if you don't want them to know. I'm just suggesting because in California I think the age is 14, but not sure. This privacy law allows a girl to get an abortion without her parents consent or knowledge, but I'm only giving options. It's your choice what to do, Hon, but PLEASE let someone in your family know about your brother because he is wrong in a very bad way. Please R E L A X and if your period is due, it will come more likely. I must say, you sound like a smart cookie to come here and I hope I can help or someone. If he comes in your bedroom in his undies and gets too close, he can get sperm inside you, but you need to make him stop! Also, remember, periods are weird at 1st. I started at 12, also in September many moons ago.....the day before Jr. high no less!!! I was scared, but my mom was a saint. If you're close to your mom or any female, please let them in on this. It will help you deal, but only if you know you can talk to this person.
I was in a similar situation when I was 15 & I had no internet back then. Now I have the internet, but no mom, but this site rocks!! Please get to a doc ASAP to be certain & try getting a pregnancy test at the drugstore. You get an A++++ from me just for coming here:-)

GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 4

I am so sorry. Can you talk to your parents about this? If not, go to a different adult you know will not tell anyone. See if she could get a pregnecy test for you.

I skipped my period for 5 months after my frist one, and now I have it again. Be cautious, and tell your brother what's going on. Maybe he'll feel guilty and help out. You DID say he was nice, didn't you?

Answer 5

I dont know if your pregnant of not. Try to get your hands on a pregnancy test if possible. The odd odor could be coming from an infection. You definately have to have a talk with your parents or other adults about your brother. Maybe you are not this time. You are not very late yet and when starting your periods they are very irregular. Mine certainly were. and you didnt mention feeling sick on your stomach. But you have to do something about this or you are going to be pregnant and probably soon....You are being sexually abused and need professional help. Please dont delay. It is NOT your fault.

Answer 6

oh no! i feel so bad for you =(

i don't know if you are pregnant or not...but i really think that i should tell you to tell your parents! what your bro is doing to you is not right...it has to be dealt with asap. its not good for your or your bro. you have a chance of getting pregnant and get scarred for life, and your bro can become a rapist and most rapistest become killers. actually...if you tell the police he can go to jail or face a serious charge.

also, try to get a lock for your room. but not one of thoughs cheap ones..ones that you would typically use on doors to get inside your house. i would also get a chain for my door, and keep a walki-talki in my room and my parents room so i could ask my parents for help if he comes at night.

i hope it helped!

Answer 7

The smell may be an infection or just a normal smell...that happens with puberty. You are not pregnant if you haven't had sex. You can always go to a doctor and they can help you out.

Answer 8

You have to tell your mom or dad. If you can't tell your mom, tell your school nurse or counselor or a teacher you trust. It will be easier to tell the nurse or counselor. You can even write it out like you did above and give it to them. It will be easier for you to talk about after they read the letter. You have to understand that this is not your fault. Do you have any other sisters? It may be happening to them too. You have to protect them too. I wish you the best.

Answer 9

Honey,

You need to have a long talk with your parents. Not only do you need help, but your brother needs some serious psychological help.

His behavior is not only sick and perverted, it is highly illegal.

Tell your parents, and tell them TONIGHT. Don't let your brother know what you plan. Just talk to your parents and let them take charge.

Good Luck and God Bless you.

Doc

Answer 10

You really need to talk to your parents or an adult friend that you trust. I was molested when I was young and it's a very difficult time....don't do this alone. If you don't have anyone to talk to email back with IT DIDN"T work and I'll hook you up with someone....don't do this alone!