Here is my life.My mom and dad adopted me when I was three days old.My brother is theirs by blood.Most of my life they have treated me totally different than my brother.Example they never taught me how to drive.But they taught my brother at age 16 how to drive.When I turn 18 and graduate I had to move out of the house in two weeks of my graduation.I ended up in a home for women.I had a sleeping room the size of a medium bathroom.I had to share a bathroom with 10 other women.No men where aloud to come into the building.My brother was aloud to stay at there house till he was aloud to find a nice apartment.I did everything my parents asked of me.I graduate top of my class,honor roll,national honor society and a award from the president of the united states.I gave them money and anything they asked for.My brother on the other hand did nothing for them. I later got tired giving them money,they would give it too my brother who was too lazy to get a job.Also me and my brother don't get along.
2007-11-30 14:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by faithfulangelhun 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My brother doesn't think I'm apart of the family because I'm adopted,so he told me not to call them mom and dad.To call them by there first name.Which they said fine.My mom and me got into it one day and she told me all I was to them was a tax exemption to them.When I call the house and if my brother is there,she calls me other names like donna or roxie.But no my name because she doesn't want my brother to know she talks to me.There was more stuff but it would take me forever to tell.I was also abused by her in the house when I was younger.I was not aloud clear bath water,I had to use her dirty bath water when she was done.I never had a shower till I moved out of the house.This is only some of the stuff they have done to me.So my question is if they did this to you would you ever speak to them? Is there anything else you would do? Thanks and Yes this really did happen.
2007-11-30 14:13:05 · update #1
Sorry for my spelling but I also had a learning disability that I had to over come also.I was called retard alot by and mom and brother.I was in DH classes all my school years.This is no joke.They money I kept giving them was also going for his tattoo's he is in Tattoo magazine and Ink and Skin.He is aka Cereal Killer (Tim).August 2004.This seriously no joke.One of my teachers found out about the abuse but I was legal age then(18) so it was up to be if I wanted to report the abuse but I didn't because I only had two week to go till I graduate.My husband told me a few years ago I should sue them for everything they have.My mom tired coming into my life this year.Telling me everything is going to be different.Hell no,everything was the same only this time my brother is on wel-fare with a whore for a wife and still mooching off them as we speak.All she would talk about it tim.Here's another thing I had no medical treatment at all.So when I got older I went to see my doctor and found......
2007-11-30 14:41:38 · update #2
that because of the no medical treat that my chances of having childern are slim to none.The hormore disease I have could have been treated years ago when I was having problems but my parents said I didn't need to go and not to worry about it.I had no periods for middle school and high school.Now I want childern and because of there decision I will pay for it. How dare someone tell me this is a joke.I could sit here all night tell you nightmares of what they did to me.And you would sh-- your pants.
2007-11-30 14:45:48 · update #3
Well, this is a terrible situation. I would probably not speak to them again and move on with my life. They have treated you terribly, not even like a friend much less a daughter. It sounds like you have a strong will to survive on your own, so do it and forget about them. Build your own life with people who love you and believe in you. Good luck to you.
2007-11-30 14:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by andmic510 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it is a good thing you got out of that house.
Your an adult now so it is time for you to make your own life with what ever you can mentally and physically accomplish on your own.
Don't communicate with your family (loose term), they will come to you, if they don't then you are just as well off.
You've been treated like an old shoe and it can cause mental scarring. When you get a chance you should talk to a mental health specialist.
In the mean time, work part time, go to school (doesn't matter what degree) and get yourself a degree and live your own life.
2007-11-30 14:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by RomeoMike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These people are EVIL. No I would never speak to them again. I would go about my life, become a huge success and never acknowledge them. I would even go to the point of saying I was an orphan and a ward of the state rather than say that I even knew these people. You don't need to be around when they get back all of the misery that they've spewed forth in this world.
2007-11-30 14:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by hetha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would try to retaliate. I'm not that clever so I probably wouldn't beable to come up with anything.
Make them feel guilty.
Become super rich and famous and don't give them any money.
Or just don't speak to them.
I am really sorry for what you had to go through but apparently you are really strong. Thanks for not going "emo" and killing yourself.
2007-11-30 14:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by JustAnotherMarionette. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this really happened to you, then I have the utmost sympathy. However, your writing style doesn't coincide with your multitude of academic honors. Lots of spelling and grammatical errors lead me to believe this is some kind of joke.
2007-11-30 14:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by RICHARD C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kinda sounds like your brother is the problem. move on get some real friends. family is not always blood. it's close ties with people. make your own new family. HUGS!!!!
2007-11-30 14:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by babe with an attitude 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
o my god!..i am so sorry that you had to grow up that way!!
if i were you..i would not speak to them at all! i dont think they deserve to have a beautiful and intelligent daughter like yourself! i know it has to be very hard for you..i wish you the best of luck in your life!
2007-11-30 14:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have every reason to NEVER speak to them again.... they were horrible to you & did not treat you like family.....
You are better off away from them.....
2007-11-30 14:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by from HJ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd hold my head high, walk away, and get on with my life.
2007-11-30 14:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no i would never speak to them. if they cannot accept you as their child,even though you were adopted, don't deal with them
2007-11-30 14:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by !! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋