And her left breast is tender.
Is she pregnant?
I am 100% sure, the first and last time we were togther we just loved eached other. There was no sexual intercourse.
Lets says ......... She is pregnant.
We dont want a baby.
Now what all we can do to get rid of this pregnancy.
What are the consequences of getting rid of this pregnancy.
Please give me all the information about this.
I am not in position of becoming a father right now.
Please reply asap in detalis.
Very serious
TOM
2007-11-30 14:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If she is pregnant, she should not get an abortion. Abortion kills the baby. It is a terrible thing to do. She should consider adoption. That is a much better thing to do. The consequences of having an abortion are guilt, feeling of loss, regret, confusion, anger, long-term grief, depression, anxiety, nervous disorders, discomfort with small children and pregnant women, frequent crying, flashbacks, sexual inhibition, sleep disturbances, sexual disfunctions (loss of pleasure from intercourse, increased pain, an aversion to sex and/or males in general, or the development of a promiscuous life-style), self-reproach, social regression, withdrawal, obsession with need to become pregnant again, hasty marriages, low self-esteem, self-hatred, increased use of alcohol, drug abuse, and suicidal ideation.
Psychological Effects:
Unfulfillment/Sense of Loss
Despair
Loss of Confidence in Decision-Making
Intense Interest in Babies
Loss of Interest in Sex
Feeling of Dehumanization
Feelings of Being exploited
Flashback of the Actual Abortion
Guilt/Suicidal Impulses
Mourning
Regret/Remorse
Inability to Focus (School or Work)
Anniversaries (of Actual Due Date and Abortion Date)
Eating Disorders
Sleeping Disorders
Low Self-Esteem
Fear of Something Happening to One of their Other Children
Cannot Forgive Themselves
Trouble with Understanding and Accepting God's Forgiveness
Nightmares
Sighing ... Crying
Hopelessness/Helplessness
Anger/Denial
Problem with Trusting Another Partner
Fear of Never Being Given Another Pregnancy
Depression/Anxiety
Interruption of the Bonding Process with Present and/or Future Children
Survival Guilt
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
This list is just the emotional and psychological effects. However, there are also physical effects you should know about.
Physical Effects:
Miscarriages
Ectopic Pregnancies
Perforated Uterus/Infections
Nervousness
Frigidity
Sterility/Stillbirths
Shock
Fever/Cold Sweats
Loss of Other Organs
Abortion's Effects on Men:
Anger
Shame/Guilt
Grief/Remorse
Failure of Relationship
Sleeplessness
Poor Coping Skills
Low Self-Esteem
Inability to Make Decisions
Feeling of Helplessness/Hopelessness
Risk Taking
Promiscuity
Flashbacks/Nightmares
Anger, Mistrust Toward Women
Trouble with Future Relationships
Self-Imposed Isolation
Sexual Dysfunction/Addictions
Suicidal Thoughts or Tendencies
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
2007-11-30 14:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by User 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um, first thing is GET A PREGNANCY TEST.
Worry about anything else later.
2007-11-30 14:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look in your local phonebook for "community family planning" centers. They will help you one on one.
2007-11-30 14:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by autumlovr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So have you ever had sex with her? What? Get a pregnancy test, I'm not your psychic friend.
2007-11-30 14:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by adrianne 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is pregnant.. I am sure..
Mb she is having it with some other poeple..??
2007-11-30 14:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Lexi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋