Or could he be simpily practical.After all, in the third act of life why not go for the best,darn the torpedoes,full speed ahead.Rambo is doing one last movie,why shouldn't a sexegenarian have a last fling or two.Straights rob the cradle(legal age of course)why shouldn't gays and bis
2007-11-30 13:47:12 · 23 answers · asked by Peter M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First, both are not only of legal age, they are both old enough to be seasoned adults fully capable of deciding what is best for them.
Second, just as there are plenty of straight relationships between two people of very different ages, so there are in gay relationships.
I am 38yrs old & my partner is 63yrs old. We have been together for 12 very happy years. During which time we have seen many straight relationships crash & burn.
2007-11-30 13:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends, age is just a number. It's a bit dramatic I'll give you that but in the long run isn't it between the two people involved? My first relationship was with a guy who was 12 years older than I was and I was 18. My current guy is 5 and half years older than I am. Current. Pishaw, it's been 25 years and I don't want it to change even though time hasn't been very good to him but excellent to me, or so he says. I think he's swelling my head but that's a story for a different day.
2007-11-30 14:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all, love knows no age boundries I have an older freind who is striaght age 72 and his wife is 40. Where it might be improper or unhealthy is, if the younger party is a teenager, and where it would be sick and harmfull is if the younger party is a child. So if they (the 65 year old and the 30 year old) are happy, why not?!
2007-11-30 14:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by chinavagabond94122 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to each his own, I say. I'm 64 and the only thing I lust for is a 21 year old woman who can make me feel young again but I think my wife would object to that so I just settle for what I have and besides it's too hard to break in another one. Took me long enough to understand the one I have.
2007-11-30 14:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Iam 53 and most of my desires are in fact for those much younger in age only ,I might ad than I ,well hec in looks too but they are mature of mind and body 21 up to 30with a sweeter look than their age,intellectual,etc
I at 53 in most circles donot look it nor act nor feel nor live my age and I hope I never do.
2007-11-30 19:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by stevenseeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people way younger than 65 will not like this idea, that is of course, until they become 65 themselves.
2007-11-30 15:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hadley N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that this is very natural. Many younger guys prefer to be with a much older mature individual.
I have also known younger guys who just want an older friend/partner to be like a 'Sugar Daddy" to them and pay their way in life.
2007-11-30 14:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Robert W 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whats the age got to do with it, you don't say what their feelings toward each other are like and if the chemistry is good, to many people carry on about the crappy age discrimination trash, love has no age barriers to it ( unless they are minors), especially at the legal age of consent.
2007-11-30 21:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are into older men, some are into younger men.
If it works go for it... if it doesn't... you won't spend the rest of your life replaying 'I wish I would have...'
2007-11-30 14:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Hk9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe it would be easier to swallow if the 65 year old has worked hrad to keep himself well preserved and the 30 year old has already hit the wall...
2007-11-30 14:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋