i was out shopping with my current boyfriend at the mall and i had a run in with my ex bf....we started talking cuz we hadn't seen each other since we had broke up about a year ago....anyways, my current bf also comes and stands right next to me and puts his arm around me while i was talking to my ex....my current bf didn't know that the guy i was talking to was my ex...anyways, i kinda nudged my current bf and kinda in a way removed his arm on my shoulder....i felt really awkward and uncomforable at that point....anyways, i introduced them both to each other and the whole thing was just awkward....now my current bf thinks that i still have feelings for my ex....i don't really know if this is true....not sure...really confused....
2007-11-30 12:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Sameera 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You should not have removed your current bf's arm from your shoulder. It was appropriate for your ex to see you have someone else now. I understand the way your current bf feels.
2007-11-30 12:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, you are not wrong to feel this way but i think your boyfriend is right, at least to a point. See, guys get jealous easily and your ex bfriend would have understood why your current one had his arm around you. It's a guy thing. Soooo the million dollar question is: do you have feelings still for this guy? Because actually shrugging your bfriends arm off does point in that direction. If your do love your current boyfriend then the best thing for you to do right now is to sincerely apologize for shrugging his arm off. Tell him also that you were only concerned for the other guys feelings and you didn't want to upset him. Just say it calmly and sincerely and take full responsibility for what happened. For the whole thing, not just some parts of it. And if you do that, i swear things will be better for you. However, if you do still have some feelings for your ex ask your bfriend if he is willing to give you time to work it out. Best of luck to you sweets!
2007-11-30 12:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be.
Basically, when you removed your bf's arm from around your shoulder, you rejected him right in front of old bf.
2007-11-30 12:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets confusing feelings and everyone feels things for their ex's sometimes
but if you think about him a lot and wish maybe you could get back together than maybe you miss him a lot and should dump your current bf and go back with your ex
2007-11-30 12:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna-June 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you remove his arm, you failed to mention that. Was it just because you felt awkward?
He has a right to feel that way if thats how you reacted and hes probably right if you were that weird feeling with the situation.
2007-11-30 12:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were Wrong, wrong, wrongggggggggg. That gave the apperance of rejection your current b.f.
2007-11-30 12:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by hotvw1914cc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he would feel that way since you nudged him off you
2007-11-30 12:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feelings are never wrong
2007-11-30 12:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by jas j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, to be young again...
2007-11-30 12:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by memphisms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋