Closure is good! Very much necessary I believe. It reassures people and leaves little doubt. It also relieves pressure off the others mind, so yes it eases pain. I don't think it mends the heart no, time is what mends. I like to always have closure. The problem is that many people that end things aren't sure of themselves and say something then later say something else. It gives closure a bad name and weak meaning to some and they don't take it seriously. This also makes it harder for others to have closure later on because it was never used seriously.
2007-11-30 13:40:39
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answered by ? 5
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I hate the word "closure." But to answer your question, we DO need some kind of ending to every situation in our lives. Unfortunately, this is not always possible. When a criminal is convicted and sentenced, for example, family members may feel "closure." It may bring some relief, but it can't mend a broken heart. And only when we reach out to others can the pain be eased, although I feel the ache will always be there to some extent. For me, time doesn't heal; it just makes the pain bearable.
2007-11-30 21:27:52
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answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7
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Closure to the living brings resolve to body , mind, soul.
Closure with a dieing loved one brings a bitter/sweet peace,
a farewell.
A heart is not broken it is wounded, a scar remains, time eases the pain, the pain gets less intense if you embrace the
pain don't fight it feel it, until you can let it go, relish the victory
of love that once was, not the defeat of the loss, just remember the good parts.
2007-11-30 14:27:39
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answered by jenny 7
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You need to have closure. It seals the wounded heart from emotionally bleeding to death. Closure won't ease your pain, or mend your broken heart, but it will make it easier to go on knowing that you closed that chapter of your life. As hard as it seems now, you will be alright... trust me. ♥
2007-11-30 14:44:03
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answered by Enchantress38 5
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"Closure" is "THE" word of the century. Only time eases pain and mends a broken heart.
2007-11-30 12:18:03
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answered by beecher 6
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closure will make you be able to move on. it might ease
the pain but it won't mend the heart , only time will do that.
2007-11-30 16:50:59
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answered by Mary S 6
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sometimes it is necessary to be able to go on with your life.it will not ease the pain or mend your heart but in time it will help you go on so you dont look back and wonder why or what if
2007-11-30 12:25:45
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answered by crazi8red 6
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having an explanation will help .at least u will know why it happened .. and time will heal the pain , the heart will mend ;you just wont forget the way it felt ..
2007-12-01 02:27:01
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answered by Snuggles 7
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Skip That! Find Another Romance. Once Your Ditched, Your Ditched (NO)
2007-11-30 15:00:22
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answered by ? 5
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2007-11-30 12:17:43
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answered by Anonymous
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