Since I have been stressed out lately (because of my ex calling me some rude stuff (Like immature, whore, b****, ugly and loser) and this guys won't stop bothering me), I feel like nobody cares about me anymore. I'm afraid that no one is there for me anymore. I feel really lonely when no one is there for me to talk about my problems! What do you think I should do about this? Please be honest and I am serious here! Thanks so much for answering this question!
-SadAndDepressedGirl831 (Denise N)
2007-11-30 12:11:44 · 14 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Denise,
I was not going to answer your question because for once I can say that you have received a lot of good solid advice. Please listen to them when they say you need to find someone to talk too. Even if it is that one person. I don't mean someone on the computer but someone you can talk to face to face. You do need to ignore your ex boyfriend, you cannot let him know that he is getting to you. Because, if you do he will continue to verbally assault you. Be strong Denise, look for a women's group maybe at the YWCA or something along them lines. Also speak with your school guidance counselor. It is just too bad you feel you cannot talk to any of your family members. Denise, this could be why you are getting cramps as well. It could be due to over reacting nerves. Denise, please keep me in touch. All the Best! Still, you should go see your Doctor.
Peace!
2007-12-01 17:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Misty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Denise - I'm sorry to hear about the problems you've been having, and the rudeness which has been directed towards you. Only insecure and weak people throw insults at girls like that - it's not something I've ever done.
I'd love to cheer you up by taking you out shopping... you just need some time away from that situation to recover your dignity and self-esteem. Shopping (with the right person/people) is a great way to take your mind off things, as long as you don't keep asking "does my butt look big in this?" etc. Unfortunately I'm way too old for you and it would probably be inappropriate anyway.
I think you need to find someone positive to talk to who will listen to what you have to say, just like I'm "listening" now... and I really hear how upset you are. I wish I could do more to help, but all I can say is that it IS possible for you to start feeling better than you are now.
Anyway, have a (((((((( B I G H U G )))))))))))) !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-30 12:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to ignore the negative things that people say,but that is what you have to do.Do not even respond to name calling or anything else like that because they are just trying to hurt you.I am sure that your family or friends care about you and you need to talk to them about how you are feeling because sometimes people do not know unless you tell them.If you feel like you cannot do that for some reason then try to meet some new friends in a positive and safe environment.Only think about what you can do this day to make your life better in a positive way and focus on good things and eventually it will get better.It has for me and it took some time .Don't give up because you are worth it and do not let anybody convince you otherwise.
2007-11-30 12:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Queen of Hearts 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A few months back I answered one of your questions about feeling the same way you do now and I told you that if you always "cry wolf"no one would pay attention to you.
Looks as though you have "cried wolf" one to many times. The net time you should think before you do what you do.
2007-11-30 16:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by juanadonwana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either tell him how you feel or like others have said Cut him out of your life
It's not worth having someone rude and insensitive in your life
But there is someone out there for everyone so there is no need to worry You'll find that special someone who really cares for you.
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2007-11-30 13:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by jlh6520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel as I feel as if nobody cares about me at times as well. Anyway if I were you I would cut that person who is making me that way out of your life and move on to something better.
2007-11-30 12:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore all the negative things and think about the positive.Before thinking somethings going to go wrong, think about the happiest things in your life to make you feel good . When know ones there to help try clear your mind and express it in art or writing .Maybe talk to your self in the mirror and express how you feel to yourself.
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2007-11-30 12:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by 1 0n 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't take this the wrong way, wait! i really don't care if ya take this the wrong way!!! i think that ppl would care more if you weren't so self obsessed!!!! you just need to stop being so dramatic!! you are sooooooo annoying to everyone!!!!!! and i'm ur friend, but u just need to think about someone other than urself!!!! and just start by trying to get everyone to feel srry fer ya, cause trust me, they don't!!!!!!!!!! just stop thinking bout ur self fer like a sec. and think bout someone else!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-30 15:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try letting go of everything and start fresh... you know sometimes it's nice to take little break from love. Just give your self time to think ok...
2007-11-30 12:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by francisco bernardo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just talk to sum1 about how u feel...like a friend or u may want to talk to sum1 about it tht knows nuthn about ur life just to get another prespective...but the best ppl to talk to is family or friends...dont let a guy control ur emotions!!! tht always ends badly....i hate when ppl do tht...letting a guy control u is giving him power he doesnt deserve...
2007-12-01 05:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by breeReal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋