For some reason i get high anxiet and real nervous before sex. And it doesnt allow me to get an erection,, sometime an erection but not a full one and not very long. I am by no means a virgin. I dont have this problem with every girl, only some,, but this is bad and really bothering me. I need sex and so does my girl! I know im not the only one so maybe somebody tried something. Is there a pill of some sort that works? or does someone advice?
2007-11-30 11:09:51 · 5 answers · asked by jay p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
my ex husband went to a Urologist for this problem. He Rx'd him Clomipramine. I didnt get a chance to ask his girlfriend if it worked or not...ha ha. But seriously, he was given that for the same problem. Maybe have a glass of wine before she comes over.Good Luck
2007-11-30 11:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pills are for men with age/health related erectile dysfunction.
You sound like you're suffering from 'performance anxiety', which means you just need to relax.
You might try oral sex. You can make your woman very happy (and vice versa) with out 'fixating' on your erection.
Once you stop fixating, everything should work.
You might also try Anxiety transfer. Next time you start to feel performance anxiety, pretend it's Angry Father/ Jealous Boyfriend anxiety. Many find the fear of being caught quite stimulating.
2007-11-30 11:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-09 17:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real Viagra not the fake stuff sold on the internet. Ask your doctor.
2007-11-30 11:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kahless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make out with her or touch...get it up..u cant just walk up to her n start having sex...unless u were horny b 4
2007-11-30 16:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by D G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋