Okay so I have a friend problem?

Question

I have a problem with a friend and I was IMing her and all of a sudden she just took the little Icon a made herself invisble to me what should I do Do U think she is still my friend (I could'nt read any of IM because they would not appear on my screen) tell me asap

Answer 1

NEVER presume that because something like this goes wrong that your friendship is over.
Many many things can go wrong with the technology such as mobile phones, texts,computers and all sorts like that. And it doesnt necessarily have to have been anything you or she or anyone else did.
Iv been on IM before and its just suddenly gone AWOL and apparently there has been a LOT of bother with MSN the last week or so.
Its probably something really trivial that has happened and nothing at all to do with anything either of you have done

Leave it till the morning and then ring her and say, ''wow what happened there, my screen went all wobbly blah blah..........''
You will probably find hers did exactly the same and you can both have a really good laugh about it...
Have a peaceful nights rest and dont worry
Talk to her in the morning
DONT ring her tonight, cos you may wake everyone and that will get her in trouble lol!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Things like this usually happen between friends. First off, do you remember if you did anything to make her mad? If you have anything in mind, you should apologize to her, and see if she accepts that. If you can't think of anything that you did, why don't you try asking her why she's upset with you? Just make sure she knows that you want to have her as a friend, and if she can't accept that, you should just move on.

Personally, I still think that she's your friend, because friends have arguments every now and then. She must be really important to you, or else you wouldn't go on the internet for help.

I hope it goes well between you two.

Answer 3

Well she is most likely still your friend, you forgot to tell us what you IMing about though, were you guys arguing?? well give her a call and if she does'nt answer leave her another IM asking her if she's mad...invisible people still get IM's. Hopefully you guys are still cool though :) good luck

Answer 4

Perhaps she was wanting to IM soneone else. I would not worry about her not liking you. It is probably all easily explained. Ask her about it next time and politely let her know that it bothered you. See what she says about it. From her repsonse you should get your answer if she likes you or not.

Answer 5

she obviously is trying to avoid talking to you. i mean, why else would she make herself invisible. try dropping some hints to tell her you think shes avoiding you for some reason. or, just ask her why she did it...but do it kind of jokingly, so she wont take it in a bad way.

Answer 6

if she just made herself invisible and/or blocked you, just give it a little while, she could have a problem with her computer or something, im sure shes not mad.

Answer 7

that isnt really a problem. depends what u said to her before she became invisible to you. Or its just a coincidence?

Answer 8

are you sure it was to you?
it could have been to get someone else from talking to her.
if it was meant for you...just say..hey i would appreciate if you would just tell me that you didn't want to talk to me...
you don't have to hide yourself.

Answer 9

Kick her to the curb ... of course, it could mean that she had to log off or was booted.

Make sure before you kick her to the curb ....

Answer 10

Call her on the phone, and ask her yourself.