i have a friend?

Question

ok i have a friend who is head- strong and stubborn. she asked me the other week if she went out with this guy would i be angry and i said yes because a week before that question came up she was all over him and she ditched me to go with him but anyway i said yes and she was like oh ojk then 2 days later there going out and i ended up having a fight with my friend at school because of it. this all happened yesterday mind . but we had a fight and i walked out of class, i went bathroom and sent her a txt askin her to come down cuz we had to talk. she came down and brought a friend saying if u need to talk to me she can hear it too and i begged her to just talk by ourselves but she wudnt listen i walked out punched the wall and ended up breaking some bones. i am scared she was gunna leave me and im scared she will get hurt and i know that they wont last long cuz she is always cumming to me saying he is annoying. who wasin the wrong in this? anyone, noone, me or her???

im friends with this guy his in my group. he always says to me "i havnt had sex in ages" so im thinking he is using her for it and cuz she popular then thats a bonus for him. i dunno.

im not gunna get her to choose because i know that he is a possibility and i dnt wanna looose her. i think im angry about this because he liked her for over a yr and then all of a sudden she likes him and gets what she wans which is the answer yes. i dont want her to leave me for him yet she said yesterday that she wud never do that nd me thinking she gunna sitch me is stupid.

Answer 1

You did your part by trying to protect her from him and giving her a warning (whether she accepts it or not). If you are right, it probably wont last long between them and she is going to come back to you saying that you were right. When she does come back to you, don't make her feel bad about it, comfort her like a true friend would do. Just try to be nice and avoid fighting as much as possible unless you are in need to defend yourself. Good luck!

Oh yeah, I just punched a wall at work the other day and now I have a broken hand and have to wear this cast all through my Christmas vacation. Punching walls is a bad habit to get in to, dont do it...haha

Answer 2

So, because your friend might get hurt in the future, you punched the wall and broke your hand today....is that your story? By now you probably realize you can't spare folks from making their own mistakes and learning from them no more than someone else can spare you...if that was possible, someone would've warned you against punching that wall before you did it. Deeper still, that was a pretty visceral reaction for a simple disliking of someone else's boyfriend; you're taking it PERSONALLY, and, while I certainly don't need an answer, you owe it to yourself to find out why. Be honest with yourself, and then be honest with her. Things will probably make more sense once you do this. Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't make it seem like its your fault! Don't blame it on you! You did your best to protect her and she didn't like it!Ask her, me or him. If she says him, tell her to stop telling you that he's annoying! Tell, her that you thought she would make good decisions in life, but she made a left turn instead of a right. She's not worth it anymore. If you tell her this, and then she changes her mind and says that she'll stay with you, still drop her. If she was a good friend she would've said that she chose you in the beginning. If she begs, say NO! Find a new friend. LEt her complain to someone else. Move on with life! To good to be wasted over a friend who doesn't talk to you! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well tell her thats its either u or him....and if she chooses him....then forget her.....dont worry....when they break up.....she come crawlin ack for forgiveness.....
Good luck!!!
Dont hurt urself!!!!

Answer 5

idk