Okay so I'm Bisexual and earlier this week I find out my best friend is to. but then I find out he likes me so so. But before I get the thought to ask him out I find out that he's going out with my other friend who is Gay. Now my gay friend has had luck with finding a relationship but I haven't had one for about 7 years. I'm happy for both of them but I really wanted to go out with my friend after I found out about his new Bisexual life. Should I break them up and then go out with my friend or should I wait until they break up which might take much much longer than just breaking them up myself?
2007-11-30 09:17:06 · 9 answers · asked by J-kwon 50000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
are u a good friend? if u r then u shud accept that u got there second and let them be happy. but that doesnt mean u cant wait in the side lines... And keep searching! the rite person is out there somewhere.
2007-11-30 09:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by torri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much as I'd like for you to have your "happy ending" ASAP, I say leave them alone for now. See how things will play out between the two of them. If they break up, then your friend's fair game. But right now, coming in between him and your other friend sounds not right to me... If they have an open relationship, why the heck not right? But if they're not, then you just have to put your feelings in the backseat for now... even if your friend likes you too. You don't wanna get stuck in a very messy love triangle now do you...? Good luck, I hope things get better for you! ;)
2007-11-30 17:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend prefers you to his current partner, he will let you know. If you break them up, you will probably lose two friends and not get either of them.
2007-11-30 17:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scandalous. Find your own mate and be happy for your friends.
2007-11-30 17:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you would say something as embarrassing and humiliating like that.
2007-11-30 17:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2007-11-30 17:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
Don't - if you do you will lose friends
2007-11-30 17:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live and let live
2007-11-30 17:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude go get yur dude!!!!
2007-11-30 17:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋