one of my best friends is thinking about having sex well its not a good i dea at 14...how do i tell her that it is not good....she is very stubborn
2007-11-30 07:39:44 · 19 answers · asked by Know u feel 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
ask her if she likes
A) labor pains
and
B) changing diapers
2007-11-30 07:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by metstennis 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you want to help her. Sex at 14 is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young! She could end up pregnant, and ruin her life, the child's life, possibly her bf's life, and lose her parents' trust completely. She is not physically or mentally ready for it at 14. Oh! Also, I read in a magazine that most teen girls who had already had sex were LESS happy than ones who hadn't. And also, this might sound mean or w/e, but tell her that you think you should let her parents know what she's thinking of doing, not to be mean to her, but to help her. You'd be saving her from sooo much trouble by doing this... that's the way to prove tha you are a good friend, and explain that to her. And if you think she'd say she wasn't going to do it, but you think she still might, I'd still talk to her parents.
2007-11-30 08:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by DunderMifflin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her DON"T do it. A girl's virginity is very special and 9 times out of 10 she and that boy ain't go 2 be 2gether 4ever. She should wait until marriage or at least until she has found the right guy.
2007-11-30 08:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by McLovin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her privately and tell her that she is making a mistake. She is 14 years old and she should not be having sexual relationships yet, let alone a boyfriend...
Tell her that even if she thinks it's the right decision, in the future she will most likely meet someone she genuinely loves and cares about. If she wants to throw her virginity away that's her choice, but you should tell her that she will regret it later.
2007-11-30 07:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by manhattanchicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk there r a bunch or weird kids in my class like that, but i think its a little to late to talk to them and im ur age, tell her she is making a horrible mistake! the kid is prolly retarded and shell like get pregnant! then i would tell her bout stds and stuff that scares most people, if shes as stubborn as u say bring her to a trailer park and show her around she mite get the picture... couldnt she die giving birth that young??? that would be horrible! tell her she is to good a friend to lose. and going into labor seems painful, i would rather live my life, my teen years the way i want. I want my first set of wheels to be a car, not a kid in a stroller as i watch my friends drive down the street in a hot car
2007-11-30 07:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STD's, AIDS, What if she gets pregnant. One of My friends had a baby when she was 15. It ended her childhood forever. She couldn't even finish High School... She and her boyfriend broke up. She is living off the support of her parents! She did turn around her life though, and that is good, but she has a somewhat low self-esteem...
2007-11-30 08:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of 14 year olds think about sex but they usually wait a year or two. Don't forget there's stories of 10, 11, and 12 year olds having babies and they aren't all rape cases.
2007-11-30 07:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her one question. Is she really SURE she's ready to become sexually active. If the answer is no, then she is NOT ready. There is no reason for your friend to rush in to sex. You could also talk to her about all the sexually transmitted diseases out there and there is the risk that she could get pregnant.
2007-11-30 08:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tony the Rogue Warrior 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her all the "scary" consequences of having sex such as STDs, HIV/AIDS, pregnancy, etc.
If you can't convince her, tell her to use condoms.
She should stay a kid and wait to do that until someone very very special comes along.
2007-11-30 08:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it, i lost my virginity at 15...there's a lot of stuff that happens when you lose it at an early age. some people handle it well and others don't.
just talk to her as a friend but don't treat her like a parent would, be a friend.
2007-11-30 08:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Creepy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!! tell ur friend do not make a mistake!! just in case tell her all the bad things about sex like std's and stuff make her scared and she wont do it. good luck with that 1
2007-11-30 07:43:24 · answer #11 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋