ok for u married couples does sex get better after u get married. we r getting married in a year and as of right now we dont do it as much becasue we work opposite shifts and we only see each other on the weekend. we have been together for three years. any ideas
2007-11-30 06:45:12 · 10 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes the only one i have been with
2007-11-30 06:51:51 · update #1
Depends on you and your spouse. Sex CAN get better if you both work on it, experiment, keep it fresh, and take an interest in cultivating it. It takes effort! But it only works if both partners take part. You two need to make time for one another one way or another or your relationship will decline. Ultimately, however, whether or not you are married has little to nothing to do with your sex life. Your sex life is what you both make it to be.
2007-11-30 06:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was married we had already lived together for two years, the sex was fantastic, and we knew we were committed to each other. We were in love and in lust -- the best possible combination to have.
When you become a couple, both of you learn to change your thinking from "me" into "us". You already know what the other likes best and how they like it, but there are still new things to try for the fun of it.
Once you have kids, and the whole equation changes all over again, because she has to focus much of her energy on the new baby. But that's a whole new subject, isn't it! ;-)
Have fun. I hope you have a long and happy relationship. Mine lasted 25 years, so I suppose it isn't that bad statistically. It would have been nicer if it had worked out for life.
2007-12-05 22:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by gedanate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married yet (engaged), but sex has certainly gotten better. You get to know each other more, you figure out likes/dislikes, you find new positions...
However, you have to talk about what you like and try new stuff.
2007-11-30 14:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyes 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but I know a joke about it. College guys buy condoms in boxes of 3, one for friday, one for saturday, and one for sunday. Married people do it by boxes of 12. Good luck!!
2007-11-30 14:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
after u get married the frequency drops considerably so its like givin a starvin man a sandwich -- anything is out of this world!
good luck
2007-11-30 14:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by headbang 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's different. Before marriage, it was about me. It was about how it feels, how much fun it is, what different things we can do...etc. But after marriage, the relationship changed. My husband and I transformed from lovers to family. And intimacy is a chance for us to serve eachother, just like cooking for eachother. It's not as exciting and we get in a rut. But it's not boring. Because now we use it to show eachother how love we love and are willing to sacrifice, not how strong and flexible and daring we are.
2007-11-30 14:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is only as good as the people having it want it to be mutually. takes two! talk about it to each other and be open. communication is key in this
2007-11-30 14:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by jslorri 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only married women are going to say it gets better.
Watch!
LOL!
2007-11-30 14:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes marraige makes the sex much better...when youre doing it with someone else...this goes for men and women, we both do it
2007-11-30 14:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Better, if you want it to be better.
2007-11-30 15:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋