I'm so in love with my Brandon, but he insists on living in sin. The clock is ticking and The Nolte cannot tolerate his inability to commit for much longer!!! How can I manipulate him into tying the knot????
2007-11-30 06:40:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Smarty pants, that's a darn fine idea!! Doesn't take much to intoxicate Brandon, anyway.
2007-11-30 06:50:40 · update #1
"Let's go to Las Vegas and get really drunk!"
2007-11-30 07:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Manipulation does not get it if you have been living in sin this long and he has been getting the cookie,why should he make a commitment he has got it all,this is what i would do tell him you no longer want to live in sin and ask him to make a commitment if he fails to do so,tell him he has to move out what you let go of if it was meant to be then it will be and he will be back to ask you to marry him,but do not let him move back in till you are married,if he does move out and does not pursue you it was never meant to be in the first place,and move on with your life God bless and please make the right choice God will either work with him or bring you someone better in your life Lisa
2007-11-30 07:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by God Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manipulations might get you wed but it will not get you a marriage or a good relationship. If the man is opposed to marriage you are not going to change his mind. All you can do is either go along and for get going down that aisle or forget him and move on with your life. You will never find a husband if you keep holding on to this guy. He won't change, but you can and if you want marriage, you are gonna have to make a change
2007-11-30 07:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "manipulate him" into it, it won't last "till the water gets hot." Ask him how he couldnot love a woman who has been so good, kind, and gentle as you. Someone who has been by his side and shown her love. It's paper and shows commitment. Ask him what he has against PROVING it on paper. If that doesn't "win him over," dump him if you're looking for a marriage proposal and commitment. They're going to have to recreate the burning bush and reserect Moses to get it out of this guy.
2007-11-30 06:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you have to manipulate him to marry you then it isn't worth the effort. Are you ready for that level or commitment or do you just feel that it is the next thing that needs to happen between the two of you. Remember: be careful what you ask for because you may not want the results.
2007-11-30 06:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by DIVAPRINCIPAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't manipulate, you aren't in the same place in life and you may have to look for someone new.
As the saying goes, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free...not knocking you, I live in sin myself, but my partner also knows that when I want to get married, if he's not ready--I'll move on.
2007-11-30 06:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sparxfly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't. So you either, accept living together and not get married as long as the two of you are happy and committed. Or you leave him. But don't be surprised if he asks the next girl to marry him. People change, only on their own term.
2007-11-30 06:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way about my X... I didn't want to live in sin anymore.. We were living together for 2 years that is so long enough to find out if we were marriage material.. Well He is my X now.. NOW HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED!!!
But NO! I have a new man i am very happy with.. A good christian man with good morals!!!
2007-11-30 06:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love doesnt consist on manipulation.
You don't marry someone unless you love someone.
So you are going at this for all of the wrong reasons.
You don't marry just to stop living in sin.
2007-11-30 06:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Waiting for Madelyn :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think manipulation is not the answer. The whole point of dating and such is to find out if you are a good "fit."
If this is a dealbreaker for you, well, you can't change the person, so you know the answer...as much as you don't want to hear it.
2007-11-30 06:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does one propose marriage to a partner who is incorrigibly opposed to the institution?
One doesn't.
2007-11-30 06:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by SternFan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋