Why is it so hard to understand certain individuals behavior especially in dealing with others.?

Question

Why is it so hard to understand certain individuals behavior?
A certain individual seem so sweet that anyone could be attracted to her. She has the charm that the opposite sex could easilly be attracted with her, even the way she laughs or handles herself. She could easily form or organize a group especially her co-employee. ofcourse with regards to rank she has a higher rank with the others .
She is frank with what she feels for others ., the job etc...........
At the back is what is supposed to be what others feel for her as someone in higher authority or as an individual....
Some may cry silently or secretly but it did not affect her at all. She seem so pleased ith what she did.....
It's a matter of two different ndividual in one.....
Is it logical for singles in that age to be really so hard to understand....? Is their some explanation for such behavior......

Answer 1

The truth is people don't understand each other because in order to even get close to that ability you have to understand yourself, which means accepting something quite important. HISTORY!!!! People piss, whine, and moan about how their past doesn't define them, little do they know that if they want to understand themselves or someone else, they most really accept that we are our past. That aside, unless you know how she got to be the individual she is today, of course you don't understand her, you don't know her. But it takes experience, wisdom, and your own personal understanding to be able to read this story, no side-notes, no books, no glossary, and espacially no index to look thru, only you-them, and the story..... we are more then just this moment in time....

Answer 2

Hmm if I'm understanding what you're saying correctly...

Some people are like that... They're called back stabbers, two-faced individuals, they will be nice and sweet to you and first, and seem very charming, until one day when you least expect it stab stab stab.

And sadly those are usually people we forgive the most, because if someone is just a bad person on the surface we wouldn't want to assosiate with them in the first place, but with people who were nice to you and then did something bad, you'll be thinking like "Well I'm sure she didn't mean that she was so nice before, so I'll give her another chance."