Die, this is basically the worst day of my life. I know this sounds cheesy, but I could use some words of encouragment.
I loved her, she loved me, but not in "the same way that I loved her" I guess. She said I was her best friend, and wanted to keep it that way. I couldn't, it just hurt to much, so I told her goodbye for good.
I know others have dealt with this. But who can tell you it's this bad? *deep breath*
Thanks awesome People!
2007-11-28 20:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by Musicman 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Wanting to die is the gut feeling. I not suicudal. I'm just saying it sucks to face up to something like this.
2007-11-28 21:24:14 · update #1
You have done the right thing. Move on. You have better girls out there. Cheer up.
2007-11-28 20:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand what the question is, but you did what you had to do, and it's done now. You should just move on with your life, and try to forget her. You've said your peace and you shold really move on, and get heartbreak out of your heart.
ok words of encouragement!
you can move on with your life now! In a way, this person was holding you back. Not where you saw it when you were together, but now what you realize you both didn't have the same feelings for each other it's a burden to carry. I'm basically saying, you can meet new people right now, if that's what you want, it's just what you prefer. Do you like being single or are you just waiting to find the love of your life? So you can go mingle or you can be with your best friends, and have fun! Take your mind off of her, and onto anything else! maybe another special person, but you may not be looking for another relationship.
ahh, i hope this helps you, and i hope the responses that you get will help you feel better, and really hope my advice made sense!
im really sorry, love hurts. but try to climb out of the mess.
2007-12-01 15:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by ND36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, gather yourself!!! No one is worth dying for but your kids. If you are the Music man, and music is your everything like you say, do not let this one little mishap, mess up what you have or could have going for yourself. If you had to remove her, that means she should have never been there anyway. Move on to bigger and better things. You will be fine. Good things come to those who wait. She is missing out most likely. I know that it is easier said than done, but it's the truth. There are millions of fish in the sea... why cry and moan over 1?
2007-12-01 11:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Michael Jackson BAD!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a good relationship you need to be best friends. Give it some time and apologize. Make sure you communicate really well and both know what each other is going through. Write is down and think of solutions, sometimes it doesn't look so bad on paper :)
hope that helps. Don't worry, all bad times come to an end someday soon. :)
2007-11-29 04:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by C J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are an awesome guy too..this past year has been very trying for me because l had to do alot of what you have done and l know the helplessness that comes after, all l can say is at this point if you feel like mourning for her please do and do not hold back...l know they say time heals but sometimes the months later the pain can strike again even more painfully, my heart goes to you and dont try erasing her in your heart until that time presents itself to you...keep busy the best way you know how
2007-11-29 04:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by judie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Don't chase her replace her" Don't mope around get out with friends and family positive people find another girl and DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR EX TO A NEW GIRL they hate that.
you must be a nice guy because when girls say they just want to be friends its because they value your friendship and she does not want to loose it by getting emotions involved and about wanting to die think of the pain and grief you would cause the ones that care for you will find the perfect person but not if your dead
2007-11-29 05:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by D.J. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to some other girls. Sometimes you have to break a few eggs to make an omlet. Maybe she will get jealous and come back to you or maybe not. Either way it would be pointless to pursue her more at this point.
2007-11-29 04:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her house.Just tell her you made a mistake.... and if you cant have an relationship atleast can you have her back as a best friend.
Tell her you were expecting something different and you reacted on impulse and you were not thinking clearly... Take her a big present or something...
2007-11-29 04:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Gooi Miellies!!!!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't die for her. Go to her, say sorry and everything will be alright. OK
2007-11-29 04:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♫ Music ♪ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋