OK in a nutshell....after 6 years the love of my life doesnt want me, I don't have a job, having the worst luck finding a new one and recently ruined my credit. I am feeling desperate about my situation and I am depressed. I want to move to another state to have a fresh start. Im in CA and was thinking AZ only because I can still drive home and visit mom and a friend who will let me stay in his home until I get my own apt. Nobody around me supports my idea and they say I need to deal with it here, get a job here and that I am giving up. I just feel I need a change of life. I am 26, have my BA, have a car that is fairly new and I know will not break down on me. Should I go ahead and look for a new life in AZ?
2007-11-28 18:47:32 · 12 answers · asked by C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're 26!! You do what YOU want. I say go.
2007-11-28 18:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl ya know I feel like this....noone knows wat yr best at or capable of better then u. u also know wat yr not capable of as well. If in yr heart of hearts u feel that u need a brake from this god-4saken state, then go 4 it if & only if u have weighed the pros & the cons.R u waiting to get 2 yr full potential? Go 4 it..get ahead & go ahead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But if I were to suggest a place 4 u 2 go where u can grow in spirit and find peace of mind & a different outlook on life, I'd suggest..MAUI!!! Most def!! I was changing routes in my life not too long ago and decided to move there & did.Not really having much money either.And I just went 4 it!! See when there is a force w/in u driving u 2 do something...don't hesitate...just DO IT!!!! The Universe doesn't like hesitation!! When a voice inside is prompting u to act...ACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Goodluck girl!! Yr family & friends have their lives & can't trully feel yr pain. U have 2 somtimes experience things 4 yrslf even if u fail u can still say u did it & not have any regrets that u couldn't even try. That's what u call growth!!! But if u let someone else tell u how 2 grow,then yr growth won't b yr's it will b their growth that u ultimately went thru. U have to learn yrslf & how u r 2 grow & how not.But if u dn't try u'll neva know wat growth GOD has 4 u!!! If u do everything evryone else wants u to,then u'll only b living out their life & not yr own!!!! goodluck baby, I really hope u go 4 it!!! PEACE,LAUGHTER & AGAPE ALWAYS, ********QUEEN*********
2007-11-28 19:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by RITESPIRIT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for two reasons.
CA is going to sink in the sea.
and CA is too expensive to get anywhere in life. Might as well try it. You'll know in a few weeks if you get homesick. What do you have to lose? A month of not finding a job?
2007-11-28 18:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live in Phoenix.
The job market sucks here. housing and
expenses are not much better than there.
if your going to make a move get the job before you come.
visit here look for work and be prepared you may have to go back to CA. Just remember the worst job is looking for one. thats hard and does not pay well.
2007-11-28 18:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be good for you to get a fresh start. Whatever you decide be sure that it's what you want and not what somebody else is telling you to do. I wish you the best of luck and I hope things start improving for you.
2007-11-28 18:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lois 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely - yes!
I consider it took considerable courage to post this query, and if you demonstrate this kind of courage - as you obviously do - you WILL succeed in your new life, trust me on that.
Please don't hesitate, for procrastination is the thief of time. Go for it - now!
Regards and the very best of luck. You deserve to succeed, and in my estimation, you will.
2007-11-28 19:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a make over to feel good about urself then try to deal with the job and eveything else
2007-11-28 18:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT... i have been in the same position. six years is along time. that hurts. go, leave, he will realize what he lost. his mess up. start over. i did, but it took me two years to do it. i was in a very deep depression. layed on the couch all the time, couldnt eat or sleep. awful....go for it
2007-11-28 18:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by ivy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would love to start a new life at a new place! go for it.
2007-11-28 19:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God for direction...then follow your heart.
2007-11-28 19:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by michelleinwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋