On one hand, If you have a wife and kids, on the other hand, your parents. If you are being asked whom you love most then tell me which one that is. Your wife/kids or your parents. Honest opinions please.
2007-11-28 18:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know that I could say that I love one more than the other in terms of spouse or parents, but my children are my world and I love them more than anything. So my thought on it is, in a life or death situation (sorry, sort of morbid analogy), and someone is definitely going to die, it is the worst fear of nearly every parent on earth to have to bury a child. Just as your own parents wouldn't want to outlive you or their grandchild, would you want to outlive your child?
2007-11-28 18:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♀Redheaded Sunshine☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my parents just as much as I love my wife and kids. The only thing that make them different is my responsibility to them. My responsibility to my wife and kids are huge because they are my future. But I'm not saying that I won't care about my parents at all. Until now, I still care about my grandmother and of course I do care about my parents. My parents still can look after themselves and I guess until they can't do anything anymore, that's when I play my part in taking care of them. Not just me but all my siblings too.
2007-11-28 18:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kidd J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your parents house and go to your own, does not mean you have to slice love like a loaf of bread. There are different types of love and varying degrees. Would you love your country more than your child? Most would say no, but they would be among the first to defend their country so their child could live in a free society. Would you love your sister more than your wife? Your spouse is supposed to become as one flesh with you, so that would be like saying you love yourself more than your sister.
You also would become less and less emotionally and physically bound to your parents and more emotionally,spiritually, and physically entwined with your spouse there again is a oneness and a different placement of
emotion. a child is supposed to draw away from their parent in order to develop and function as an adult, that is a natural course of events. Therefore a different level of love is reached as a person grows and developes, but it cannot be measured, because love is an entity in itself, and all you can have is the feeling of love or the lack of it, not how much you have for your parents compared to your spouse!
2007-11-28 19:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm hard question, but if I think of it, you would choose wife and kids because you chose to have a family in the first place. Anyway, you would love your parents more if you were living with them at 30 years of age LOL!
2007-11-28 18:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to choose? Can't it be a different kind of love that you have for each. Certainly the love for a wife is different from the love for a child?
2007-11-28 18:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married you leave your parents home to create your own family and they are the ones that should come first but there shouldn't be a reason to have to choose. This family that you created is your future and as a husband and father you are the provider, nurturer and protector.
2007-11-28 18:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its this user-friendly. Love is Love is Love. you are able to no longer rather quantify quantities. There are categories of affection. there is LOVE for; family contributors spouse lover infants u . s . a . in spite of. the element is that love is obtainable in diverse varieties. As a clean be certain there is not any way you are able to truly have the intensity of affection for them which you will desire to on your spouse. shall we face it, you slightly comprehend them and that they have got not even started with their character. valuable some point is implicit with parenting. This love for childrens is a marginally cutting-edge (2 hundred years) cultural physique of strategies. no count what your physique of strategies in the direction of sharing love the two it is your spouse who must be the concentration of you affection good now. the infants come first physique of strategies reductions that there became right into a relationship there first which brought about the infants. that's going to be lots extra important for the infants to maintain the marriage first than to throw all your interest to the infants now and have your marriage whither and die from inattention. a powerful loving abode and marriage is the terrific present you are able to provide on your infants. they're going to learn the way its executed (many in no way get to be certain that) and a powerful relationship will via default contain looking after their needs. Its area of the deal. A healthful abode will advance healthful childrens. One final thought is that with the aid of fact the dad, infants are rather no longer all that lots exciting. you probably did no longer have the infants donning the toddler dolls around for that life training. In time whilst they're initiating to stroll and talk your interest would be precious. besides you would be elected to pull them to activities and faculty. you're truthfully magnificent which you will basically have the infants for a quick time. it would be very sturdy to get to that vacant nest and sweetness who you reside with. From what i've got considered, you would be high quality.
2016-11-13 00:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by du 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife and kids are first priority, you love your parents in a different way, no one should ask such a question in the first place
2007-11-28 18:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by DEANA W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kids...
you love the wife and your parents, but kids are THE MOST LOVED.
2007-11-28 18:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Shangri-La 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents
2007-11-28 18:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋