why is it that a man only thinks you love him is when youre making out,if you go with out for 2-3 days,he starts thinking you dont love him,is it insercurties or what!!i think its out right selfishness,after all im the 1 who just lost my little 25year old brother,8mths ago,shot himself,accidentley,very tradgic,and yes this is what i have to deal with every bloody day,i cant deal with it,nor should i have to,what do all you nice people out their think,what should i do,HELP,
2007-11-28 17:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know what you mean.
But as a woman I do enjoy sex and feel the need for it, most of the time.
If you are grieving though then you probably don't want sex and he should understand that, a sensitive person would.
2007-11-28 18:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by June 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a loss like your loss of a brother to an accident, it is just predictable that the world seems upside down. Pleasure may hurt under these circumstances. Pain may feel healing. Everyone needs professional counseling in times like you are know going through. Because this event that took your brother is the sort that is destructive to your sense of well being and faith in life.
It is a time for counseling, professional counseling. You can get help from your regular doctor by asking him or her to refer you to a mental health professional.
It is normal to be very unset and lost at this time after what is happening to you and your family. Get help!
2007-11-29 02:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are grieving for your brother, you're probably not in the mood for sex at the moment.
Men need sex all the time, so they assume that women need it all the time as well. Not all men are bastards, but some don't care how you feel, they just want anything they can get and will insult you if you don't give it to them.
2007-11-29 02:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do know some women who feel the need for sex every day. I like those women :D lol
But seriously, I figured he would try to understand that you have a lot to deal with right now.
2007-11-29 07:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men equate love with love making, this is how they show their love to us so it's only natural for them to think that we do the same thing. He's not just trying to "get in your pants" this is the only way he knows to comfort you so you have to enlighten him on how to do so in a nice manner of course so he won't feel attacked!
2007-11-29 02:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes really being insensitive about your feelings
sorry about your loss. some men cant think past their *#*#
2007-11-29 02:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by bluesky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they are HORN-DOGS!
2007-11-29 01:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋