Scared to ask her!! Help?

Question

There is a girl I want to explain my feelings to, but not sure if I will get shot down... I have known this girl for over a month and is a cousin of my friend. My friend says I should not get involved with her. I have many strong feelings about her, but not sure she feels the same. She does talk about another she is involved with, but never sees him, but they talk on the phone sometimes. She has a little boy I just adore. Mother and son are so awesome together. All 3 of us have spent much time together and I am wanting to just spill my guts, but not sure how. I did write her a letter, scared to give it to her... What should I do?? Thanks...

Answer 1

Depends... If you value her friendship and stand to lose her as a friend, you may not want to tell her.

However, if you are not worried about the outcome, go ahead and tell her everything. At least there will be some conclusion to your anxiety.

Answer 2

You should just come out and ask her. If her response is positive, great. If you get shot down, you're no worse off than you are now. At least then you can move on and find someone else.

Answer 3

Go ahead and tell her how you feel, the worst she can say is get lost. The best she could do is say she has the same feelings for you. How will you know if you don't tell her?

Answer 4

What's the worst she's gonna say? "I don't like you that way?" At least you'll know...so man up and just open your mouth.

Answer 5

your friend would know her the best maybe you should listen to him. there must be a reason he tells you to stay away from her

Answer 6

nothing get over it she has a kid and she love someone else