well,you see,i was just looking through my dad's pics on his phone,and i saw a pic of a girl's butt.which means he is cheating on her,AGAIN.so help me please!!and that was a pic he took himself because it don't look like no wall paper at all!so help, me please!!!should I tell her.my friend just said stay out of it and don't say anything.and I really don't know what to do!and if I do tell her,they'll start arguing then stuff will start to happen.but still,it seems right to tell her.so should I tell her,or no?
2007-11-28 17:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by Δ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you really close to your mom? She will feel just as betrayed by you if you don't tell her! I'm very close to my mom. I would tell her in a heart beat. The craziest part...she's my step mom! Maybe you could leave clues out and let her find it on her own!
2007-11-28 17:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disscuss the situation with you father ( Are you sure it is not your moms butt ) explain to your father that his action effect you and your mom Let him know what kind of message is giving you with this behavior Ask him if he would consider counseling by himself or with your mom to work out there issues to see where the problem lies My brother had a similiar incident my sister in law was texting her bare butt to her son inlaw She then had a mild heart attack shut off the phone Next the phone rings with a text save me some for later love the son inlaw then calls and says that on the phone My brother saide heh baby I will Son in law just about faints Everyone is in couseling Sister in law lived My Brother is angry and confused My niece mad as hell (sister in law step mom) Son in law cool like the cat that ate the canary
2007-11-29 01:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom. that's something she needs to know even if it would hurt.
but before you do that, you must confirm your facts first.
for all you know, that was nothing he just has the picture there on his phone.
if you've confirmed that he is cheating, tell your mom so that you and her can confront your dad.
2007-11-29 01:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by JDB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad, ask him to swear to you not to do it again otherwise you are the first person gonna tell your mom about it..
2007-11-29 01:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Betsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your father what you discovered and give him 24 hours to tell your mother. You'll be able to tell if he did...there will be tension in the house.
2007-11-29 01:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by babs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it over with your mums brother or sister, there always the best to talk to in situations like this! but before you approach your mum get your facts straight first, your aunt or uncle could help with this.
2007-11-29 01:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur dad first and dont keep any kinda promise with ur dad because itll lead to more trouble,then talk to ur mom tell her what u saw
2007-11-29 01:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Girl_Next_Door_Forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to you if you sad about it nd if you have to tell yur mum ask you go out with u for the whole nd then break the bad news to her kk
2007-11-29 06:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what? You don't know if he cheated on your mom. He probaly never slept with her. I would stay out of it.
2007-11-29 01:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about how it makes you feel to know what he is doing to your mother.
2007-11-29 01:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋