she just told him she still loves him, too. tonite.
just got engaged. yeah... i wanna puke.
2007-11-28 16:54:14 · 29 answers · asked by crimsonsky_bleedingheart 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i've known this for 3 years now, that he loves her. it's just NOW they're telling eachother this.
2007-11-28 17:04:24 · update #1
I don't think so because he sounds like he has unresolved issues with his ex. Some guys really lack class when it comes to being half stupid. Do they just not think on how they are coming across to a woman when they ask for you to marry them even though they love their ex but love you more? If this guy had anymore romance in him he would blow up the marriage with someone before he ever got it started! There are some things that should be held very wonderful in our lives and and a man asking you to marry him while measuring his love for you against his ex would take the joy right out of it! If this is the beginning of forever with this man ....I wish you the best of luck and I mean that sincerely sweetie.
2007-11-28 21:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did love your husband enough to marry him, didn't you? And why the hell do you have a myspace account anyway, it is NOT something for married people to have unless it's an account that both you and your husband use to stay in touch with family and not for ex's. It has been well said that grass is always greener on the other side but this other side that you have in mind does not exist. Should you go to your ex, he will never forget how he got you back. Could you possibly assure him that you would not it to him and go back to your ex-husband. He will never trust you and quite honestly, you will deserve every bit of it. With your ex-boyfriend you do not have to deal with life, it's a fantasy in your mind and should it become a reality, it would be a lot worse than what you are going through now. Common sense would tell you that you must NEVER speak to your ex again. BUT I have a feeling that you are way too stupid to comprehend any of this till it's going to be TOO late.
2016-04-06 03:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because he will love you but be in love with her You do not need extra baggage going into this marriage He has obviously brought baggage into this relationship You are worth more than that You are worth more than some man disrespecting you by telling you he loves someone else Actually he has done you a great favor What does your instinct tell you There are plenty of men out there who will put you first Take your time Better to be carefull than to be miserable married to him while he cheats on you with the ex he still loves
2007-11-28 17:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you ask this question? You knew everyone would say no.
"i've known this for 3 years now, that he loves her. it's just NOW they're telling eachother this"
So you've been dating a guy for 3 years and you KNEW that he loved ANOTHER woman? Its you're own fault for staying in the relationship.
2007-11-28 16:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you need to take a step back and rethink this situation. If we really love someone and things don't work for one reason or another, we will probably always be in love at some level. But we certainly don't have to tell a prospective partner that we care for, that we are still in love with someone else. That is hurtful and unnecessary, unless he is warning you about things to come.
2007-11-28 16:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its seriously up to you. There's many different forms of love, but if you think its the "lets me more than friends love" they have, get out now. Talk to your man too about it, let him in on what you think-- that should clear things up a bit (whether it be good or bad). hope this helped!
2007-11-28 16:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY TO SAY!!! BUT LEAVE THE *** HOLE HE DONT WANT TO BE WITH YOU there is no such thing in still loving his ex and loving you dump him you could have so many other guys behind you IT'S THE BEST FOR YOU AND HIM because you are going to be having problems all your life just because of her and him they are still going to be looking at each other behind our back
2007-11-28 17:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by STRAWBERRY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. he is showing you that yeah I love my ex and you. Think about it, the chances of him cheating on you now or in the near future is certain. Avoid the whole heartache now than later when is will be much harder to deal with.
2007-11-28 16:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by tinklelove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make any rash decisions. And, yes. You can love someone but not be "in love" with them. Is she trying to play a power trip since he was asking you to marry him.
Definetely, clean EVERYTHING up before signing the marriage certificate.
2007-11-28 16:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. don't marry him. you're going to get into something very badly that will end up in divorce. for your man to even tell you he still loves her must mean that he really loves her. i cant believe he would even tell you that he loves you more - he acts like he gets to love however many people he wants ! ? the ring he bought u tell him to give it to his ex and they can both eat sh**!!
2007-11-28 17:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by jenn a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋