my hubby of ten years screws someone else... i think hes sorry... hes been trying to be a better person i think... but how do you ever really know?
2007-11-28 16:50:08 · 10 answers · asked by ice princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust has to be earned. Let him earn it ... don't just give it to him. It takes time to rebuild trust after someone has torn it apart.
2007-11-28 16:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Patti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know, its something you'll have to pray about and or seek counseling about, because until you get over what happened you'll never trust him, and some people no matter how much counseling and prayer never regain trust because their partner isn't to be trusted in the first place and they needed to just move on, but the only way to know is to try and make it work, marriage is a serious bond that shouldn't be broken so easily, so give it another try!
2007-11-29 00:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by SouthernCharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking someone's trust is a huge flag, it takes time to build trust once is has been broken. Honesty is the only way to regain trust. It truly takes time.
2007-11-29 00:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tru_New Orleanian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get really good advice at www.survivinginfidelity.com on all types of relationship situations, including this one.
2007-11-29 07:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time and patience, there is a shot cut. put his nerve on the edge, is not fancy but works.
2007-11-29 00:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Meneses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust has to be earned. Let him earn it
2007-11-29 01:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to prove himself trustworthy. Don't sit there with your eyes closed, check up on everything he does.
2007-11-29 00:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
monitor his movement closely and let nature take its course.
2007-11-29 00:56:13 · answer #8 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't..... he has to earn your trust in time, but it's going to be hard.
2007-11-29 00:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell..it just takes time...
2007-11-29 00:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by love2help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋